Saturday, April 11, 2015

Incoming Call From.......EX

Normally when a relationship ends its either because someone violated the trust, mutual feelings of going separate ways, or you just weren't ready to be settled down. We all have a ex or two, or in my case many exes that just want leave us alone. Maybe you have moved on and a you're in a happy place where the past is the past. Unfortunately some of our exes have a hard time understanding, EX is code for EXIT. 
For example, every relationship I have ever had each ex always tries to re enter my life. I have a ex who I was with 4yrs. He cheated and is currently still with the young lady he cheated on me with. But every few months he pops up in my facebook notifications. I even wrote his girlfriend with a screen shot telling her please tell your boyfriend to leave me alone. I have moved on with my life. Clearly her telling him to stop contacting his ex didnt work. 
Why do our exes still keep contacting us?  I believe that lots of the time the person who can't seem to let the relationship go, is normally the cause of why the relationship ended.  They may not be happy in their current relationship, may miss you, or it could be a ego thing. They may not want to be with you, but just cant stand the thought of you being with someone else. 

According to below are some obvious signs your ex still has feelings for you.

For example,
They will like your status on Facebook and then Unfriend you.
They will text you when they are drunk but won’t pick up your calls the next day.
They will be sitting at your favorite coffee shop but won’t come and say hi to you.
They will start dating someone else but will get angry when they find out you started dating someone else.
My only advice for you all who have a annoying ex that calls you private, texts you as if they have the wrong number. Stalks your social media. Still talks about you to mutual friends. Is... 1. Don't give into them when they reach out to you. Your only leading them on to have hope you guys may get back together. 2. Try to date again, hopefully if word gets out your dating they will get the hint that its really over. 3. Just tell them honestly that you guys will never ever get back together. Listen to Taylor Swifts song for motivation.
 Taylor Swift-We are never ever getting back together

Ex means thanks for the EXperiences, Our time has EXpired, Now EXit my life.