As girls we sometimes have what I call a blindspot effect. Where you are so out of tune you can't see it even when its staring you right in the face. In most cases it leads us to not realize, He's just not that into you. Guys have a hard time lying, and being fake when it comes to their feelings. So when a guy isn't feeling a girl that much, they can give it off without saying anything but by their actions .This doesn't mean he thinks your ugly, or terrible, its human not to have chesmtry with someone. Alex Matlock did a article for your tango.com in 2013, with 7 signs to know. Check them out, hopefully this blog post helps with your situation, or someone you know. I added my perspective and broke it down for you. Happy new year.
1. He's Not "Around" You
This is the most obvious sign. A guy who likes you will make sure he gets quality time with you, but the guy who isn't feeling you, will avoid any time to be around you. He cancels plans, dates, never invites you out. Yes girl he is doing this to not face the music of telling you he doesn't want to see you.
This is the most obvious sign. A guy who likes you will make sure he gets quality time with you, but the guy who isn't feeling you, will avoid any time to be around you. He cancels plans, dates, never invites you out. Yes girl he is doing this to not face the music of telling you he doesn't want to see you.
2. He's Not Interested In Talking To You
Guys love to reject a call. But if you can never get ahold of him. That's another big sign. Especially if every time you call, he cuts the conversation short, says he will call you back but never does.
Guys love to reject a call. But if you can never get ahold of him. That's another big sign. Especially if every time you call, he cuts the conversation short, says he will call you back but never does.
3. He Talks To You Like He Does With His Friends
A guy who prefers to you as the "homie" is another sign, he sees you nothing more that just a cool person. A Buddie or pal. He's letting you know in his own way theres nothing more past friends. Also he doesn't want you to think it could be a chance.
4. He Has No Problem Telling You About The Girls He Likes
A guy who prefers to you as the "homie" is another sign, he sees you nothing more that just a cool person. A Buddie or pal. He's letting you know in his own way theres nothing more past friends. Also he doesn't want you to think it could be a chance.
4. He Has No Problem Telling You About The Girls He Likes
Guys can be rude and hurtful, so if your crushing on a guy and every time you do talk he asks you about your single friends, or shares his hookup stories. That's like a clear image. Need I say more.
5. Bad Body Language
If he doesn't try to hold your hand, or maybe goes in for a hand shake instead of a hug its clear he has no chemistry or attraction to you. Also no eye contact doing conversations is another sign. If you two are sexual and he leaves after sex, without a hug, or kiss or even a few mins of cuddling. He is not that into you girl. Meaning your heart and mind.
If he doesn't try to hold your hand, or maybe goes in for a hand shake instead of a hug its clear he has no chemistry or attraction to you. Also no eye contact doing conversations is another sign. If you two are sexual and he leaves after sex, without a hug, or kiss or even a few mins of cuddling. He is not that into you girl. Meaning your heart and mind.
6. He Doesn't Seem To Have Any Time For You
If a guy wants you, he will make time for you. If he doesn't try to make effort to return calls, or ask you out. He doesn't see you as special or a prioritie.
If a guy wants you, he will make time for you. If he doesn't try to make effort to return calls, or ask you out. He doesn't see you as special or a prioritie.
7. He Seems To Flirt With You, But Also With Everyone Else
The big one here. I've seen this happen a lot. He flirts with you, then when you go to on a restroom break he's flirting with another girl. This doesn't mean he thinks your ugly or bad. He just doesn't take you serious enough. So he flirts with you for fun.
The big one here. I've seen this happen a lot. He flirts with you, then when you go to on a restroom break he's flirting with another girl. This doesn't mean he thinks your ugly or bad. He just doesn't take you serious enough. So he flirts with you for fun.
