Lurking !!!! When Is It Necessary?

Sometimes you find yourself on a persons page, then see someone you know and go to their page, then another and another. Yes darling, you are a lurker. Don't trip it happens to all of us, but lurking isn't such a bad thing. For a woman who is mysterious about her mans activity you may want to lurk. Now I know there are some who believe"WHATS DONE IN THE DARK WILL COME TO LIGHT" Well I believe "If you think it, believe it, and look into it"

I have been cheated on before like allot of other good women. But because of my woman's intuition and smartness I listen to my gut and look into niggas.

Quick story. 

A few months back I was talking to a guy who seemed like he was digging me. He swore he was different not like the rest. God fearing, ambitious, good independent man, I thought. I told my best friend about him she was so happy that damn I may have found a good man. But I said to her "girl something not right". I kept saying it and she thought I was tripping and letting my past mess this up. So I followed my gut. After LURKING, I came across his ex, who I found out he had another woman in their shared home and that was the reason they broke up. After a few mins of lurking each week I came across a girl who was the reason for his last break up and was actually his girlfriend now. Yasss! He sweared he was different, and wouldn't lie, and cared. Church boy act was a front. Let's just say I scared him so bad he went ghost. 

Don't be the crazy chick going through his wallet, but if you think his ass up to something. Lurk and you may find resolution to the truth. Check out these 4 signs you need to take on the role of a detective and look into your partner. There is nothing worse than those women who are married 20 yrs and find out their man was creeping for the last 10 years 💀. People leave clues like mice leave crumbs. Don't stalk the man and catch a charge, but look into it if you think something.

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Reggie Bush Side Chick Nightmare?

Reggie Bush the football player of the Buffalo Bills...also may be known as Kim Kardashian ex boyfriend. Well that Reggie is in the middle of some nasty, nasty drama. Alledgly with his sidechick. According to Tmz & Bossip this young lady by the name of Monique who works in a night club in miami is alleging she is pregnant with his baby, and that she was actually the mistress, aka sidechick. Now Reggie has been married since 2014 to Lilit Avagyan who is now Mrs.Bush. They have 2 beautiful children together.

I'm just so lost on how, and why. The sidechick Monique is even alleging he offered her 3 million in hush money and to abort the baby. She even may have secretly recorded their sex encounters that allegedly has him asking to nut inside her. Yasssss, I know your mouth is open right now in disgust. This chick planned her come up apparently.

Just today both TMZ & Bossip has found out the sidechick was actually married herself. Her husband is filing for divorce because of the rumor of the affair and wanting dna documents of his own to prove who this baby belongs too. She's 6 months now but dna is possible. Now what do you think Reggies reps are saying? They claim they are just rumors and he is still happily married. Oh okay, sure.

I am wondering if the wife will stay with Reggie if the baby is his. I hate to say it, but part of me thinks her ass is not going any where. I don't judge but in this case I am judging. For a man to have unprotected sex and come home to you, is very disrespectful. So we got 3 more months before the baby drops, I will keep following this story. 

Girlfriend or Sidechick ?

Main chick, side chick are both stupid to me. You would think that every woman wants to be the ONLY chick. Guys show you what you are to them by the way they treat you. With his girlfriend he treats her with respect. He cares about her feelings. He doesn't want to hurt her and lies to protect that. With a side chick he is honest and your feelings aren't something he keeps in mind.

He Is Bluntly Honest

If you are dating a guy who opens up to you hes interested in other women. Well sweetie its obvious hes telling you that because he looks at you like a side chick. So he feels why not tell you. You shouldn't care.

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Not Bluntly Honest

You know you are his girlfriend and his only when he goes out of his way to protect your feelings. He may have a lock on his phone so you won't go in his phone and stroll his contact list to see a ex number. Sounds petty right? But its because your feelings towards him matters.

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Friendly Verbal Interactions

If he says to you that you are his homie, his friend. No kisses, no affection. But you two are actually sexual. He sees you as a friend no connection he's just smashing. He probably has a main woman at home.

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Loving Verbal Interactions

When he asks how's your day. He misses you. He's affectionate towards you. He has feelings for you. Men who love their girlfriend are affectionate to their girl.

He's doesn't open up to you

A guy who makes you his side chick are very secretive with you about where they work, egrre they live hell sometimes their names. He doesn't want you coming by his home. Or calling his job. Normally guys who see you as a sure chick won't follow you on social media. He has another somebody. He doesn't want you crossing paths into his real world.

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He told you everything

Girlfriends get to meet the family, friends, co workers even the pets. You probably have a key to his place and has his work number.