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Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts

Sunday, August 13, 2017

Protecting Your Valuables(The Truth About Feminine Products

I first started my menstrual at age 9. I remember not having a clue what to expect but my mom gave me a pad to put on my underwear.  I can't recall how many times I put a pad on wrong and messed up a pair of jeans. Then once my monthly cycle ended I was given a douche to refresh and supposedly clean my vagina from odors.  Not knowing what I know now,  I have been harming my body for so long.


As women it is very important we keep our body's safe and protected. Our body is a valuable jewel. You guard it with your life literally. Our vagina is precious.  We use our vaginas for many things which why it is very important we know what the hell we are putting near that area.
I came across a breakfast club interview where comedian Tiffany Haddish (Click To Hear Her Story) talked about when she was a young girl and used a tampon because she had no pads.  She talked about having to go to the hospital due to TSS shock.  Some of her symptoms were  high fever, low blood pressure, chills, dizziness, and light headed. I thought to myself "What the hell is that?"






According to WebMD one of the causes of TSS shock is the use of using tampons brands that use harmful chemicals. Trust,  they know that they are harmful but what profit would they make by telling women. They release poisonous substances from an overgrowth of bacteria named Staphylococcus aureus, or staph, which is commonly found in many women's bodies. The cotton we put inside us or from the pads are dyed,  and absorbed with very dangerous chemicals. Mucosa membranes line wall is  1/3 of our  vagina that protects us from bacteria but absorbs chemicals very very well. So that means those chemicals are getting into our bloodstream. The materials used in some tampon brands are using extreme pesticides and chemicals.  When I hear pesticide I think of poison. Procymidon and piperonyl butoxide are the most common. To some it may not be a big deal.  But when it is affecting our bodies it is important.  Some safer brands are Natracare, Diva Cup, Seventh Generation Chlorine Free Organic Cotton Tampons. We need our products.  But let's actually educate ourselves on what we are spending our money on.  



Douching is something I am guilty of doing for years before I knew more about the bad it was doing.  Growing up some use it after your menstrual to keep it clean and fresh.  Some even use it to help prevent sexual diseases.  Which is very confusing to me.  

The only thing to help that is safe sex.  But doctors studies show all that is a lie.  It can cause pregnancy complications and infections.  It is suppose to be a mixture of water and vinegar to help clean us out, which they contain antiseptics and fragrances. Douching can through off our natural balance. It can cause harmful infections including yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis and pelvic inflammatory disease. The safest way to clean our vagina's is using mild soaps, non fragrance sprays, and powders. Baby powders are very dangerous as well. Studies show most women who commonly use it below are more likely to get ovarian cancer. Also ladies. This may be something that sounds tempting on a hot sweaty day but baby powder is not something we should want to use below.

Girls I hope you enjoyed this post and most importantly take it serious. Our body is valuable it belongs to us. So lets protect our girl parts. For an questions please see links above. Also check out my previous post. Keeping your vagina purtty.







Tuesday, April 18, 2017

Make Up Sex ? Or I Miss You Sex?



Arguments happen in relationships. It is totally normal for you and your significant other to have fights. The subject of make up sex or I miss you sex was a topic between co workers and I today. It was very interesting hearing others opinions on this topic. Before I jump into this topic take my quiz now below. Then keep reading.

Make Up Sex Or I Miss You Sex?

Make up sex, having a big blow up then making up with sex is the best
I can't decide! Sex is just amazing period.
Yasss, I miss you sex. The feeling of anticipation of seeing them.
Other
Please Specify:
Poll Maker




Make up sex is so passionate. After breaking up, and reuniting its a way to take out your sexual frustrations on each other. Whether its a big argument you and your man had or even break up, sometimes makeup sex can squash the beef. Have you ever been so mad at your man, then you two have rough passionate sex and all of a sudden you aren't mad anymore? You two just made up. But don't depend on makeup sex to fix problems in your relationship. Make sure you later talk about what and why both of you were upset anyways. I noticed in a previous relationship the makeup sex distracted me on major things that needed to be addressed. So enjoy it, do your thing girl but don't let it distract you.




I miss you sex is my favorite. I miss you sex is very emotional, and meaningful. You may have broken up, and months or years went by and you have always missed the other person. I look at I miss you sex as a way of showing your man how you truly feel. It feels like a spark all over your body because you had been waiting for them and yearning their touch. I miss you sex could also be a eye opener of what you thought you missed, but realize you really don't.

Either way always make sure you use protection when having sexual intercourse. Sex is a amazing experience to share with your partner, but always practice safe sex. Hope you enjoy my poll. Share with friends.

Saturday, October 8, 2016

How To Tell Hes Cheating & Spare Yourself The Embarressment


The worse feeling ever is having someone else bring information to you about your man that you did know. By information I mean telling you your man is cheating. Its a big slap in the face. Now truth is no matter who you are, you can get cheated on. If  Halle Berry can get cheated on, we can too. But the best thing to do as a woman is always be aware of things different in your man.  A lot women have the signs right in front of their eyes but refuse to pay attention. I don't want you to take this post as all men cheat, because that is not true. But dont be so foolish to think you are so amazing and your sex is so great he would not dare cheat. Dont forget  Nicki Minaj got cheated on herself. Just do not be the girl in a 10 yr relationship who man cheated 8 of those years and had no idea.



  • If you call him and he does not pick up and sends a text right after, that is a sign, especially if it happens constantly. Why cant he answer the phone? "I'm busy". Well he could of said that on the phone as well. Pay attention to how many times he does this, and time of the day.

  • Changes password on phone and social media. If your guy was always open with his social media and phone, but suddenly he wants privacy. Ding  Ding. That is odd right? Look into that. It could mean he just wants his privacy or he just wants to keep his conversations private.

  • Rumors. Haters never want to see a happy couple. But if you start hearing rumors about your guy look into that. Sad thing is, sometimes the streets know more about your own relationship then you. Do not ignore them. Investigate for yourself.

Sunday, July 31, 2016

5 Signs You Aren't Ready For A Relationship



Some people jump in relationships when they have no business being in one.  The bad part is, they normally don't realize they shouldn't be in a relationship. I know for a fact. Here are 5 signs to help you learn that maybe being in a relationship at the moment isn't a good idea.


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You Still Have Feelings For A Ex


I mean how can you love someone if you still have feelings for someone else. You can't fully give a person your heart if someone else has it. This is the biggest sign you should not get involved with anyone else. For the most important reason is someone getting hurt. This is the most selfish thing you can do.
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You Don't Have A lot Of Free Time


We all can get busy. Maybe you have kids, or you have a career, or you are in school. Don't add a person to your life if you know you have no time for them. Wait until you have some things taken off your plate 1st. The worse thing you need is a mate complaining because they feel lonely. Save yourself and them the drama. Be single and get your life together 1st
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You Have Trust Issues


Sometimes the pain from one relationship can follow you. The hurt, betrayal. Its something you just don't want to bring into a relationship. That person should deserve a far solid chance. You knowing that you can't trust anyone at the moment is a obvious sign you shouldn't be involved with anyone. If you do get into a relationship, its going to sink. Because your trust issues are going to tear and destroy the relationship..
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You Are Desperate For Marriage and Kids


If you know that marriage and kids is all you're really wanting, you shouldn't just jump in a relationship because you want to speed up the process. A relationship takes work and pride. Maybe you're aging and you fear not being able to have kids is your future. You should not get in a relationship.

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You Don't Like To Be Alone


This is the most common issue. So many people hate being alone. They can't even ride a uber alone, go to a big event alone. You being with someone just because you hate being single is a much deeper issue. You have to learn yourself and figure out your life. What will happen, you will end up getting in a relationship with someone, and your life will revolve around them
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