Tuesday, December 5, 2017

Kayla Got The 411 Podcast: Episode 4- Straight Outta Patience With His Family

⏯New Podcast Episode Episode
🎙Straight Outta Patience With His Family?
Whats the 411?  Actor/Singer #JenniferHudson and her fiance aka boyfriend aka baby daddy #David Otunga
split after a 9 year engagement! Rapper Cam'Ron  girlfriend of 10 years  Juju split. Damn..Tis The Season To Break The He'll Up I Guess
Girl talk discussion this week... Straight Outta Patience With His Family? When you have had enough of the disrespect.

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Sunday, December 3, 2017

Kayla Got The Recipe: Broccoli Cheese Soup

 "Panera Style Broccoli Cheese Soup "

I am no chef but I love to eat so that is why I cook so much.  I fell in love with Panera Bread broccoli cheese soup, but it can get pricey.  So good,  but expensive for the bowl or bread bowl.  So I searched on line and found inspiration on how to get the taste of Panera bread soup.  Well I found it,  put a Twist on it and and honestly I think I beat Panera.  Check out my ingredients below. Give it a try.  What's better than a hot bowl of soup in the winter?


  • tablespoon butter melted 

  • grated sharp cheddar cheese 

    •  chopped diced onion
    • 1 ⁄4 cup flour
    • 2 cups half-and-half cream
    • 1/4 cup of broth 
    • 2 cups chicken stock
    • broccoli chopped into bite size pieces
    • 1 cup carrot ,sliced thin
    • 1  teaspoon nutmeg
    • salt and pepper,  Lawry's seasoning. 

    I cooked my soup in the crock pot. 
    I sauteed the onions and butter 1St.  Added the flour and half and half.  I let it slow simmer before adding the carrots and broccoli. Then once my veggies started to get soft I added my cheese. (Careful, don't add to much cheese to the point it takes away the broccoli taste) 

    Lastly I added salt,  pepper,  Lawry's and also garlic powder but not much. Lastly my nutmeg. 

    As long as you have the key ingredients it will come out tasty. Remember this is soup.  Slow cook it,  on low.  Don't rush soup,  you may end up with a disaster. 

    Thursday, November 30, 2017


    Happy holidays to you all. I hope you have been keeping up with my podcast episodes. This 4th episode is perfect timing for the holidays.  You may be meeting your guys family for the first time, or spending the holidays with him and his family. Dealing with your man's family can either be amazing or a train wreck.

    Sometimes you're just straight out of patience dealing with his family. Trust me I have experienced my share. You know you have had enough when you find yourself in the bedroom away from his family because you are minutes away from letting somebody have it.

    Look I know you want to make a good impression. It is important to your man that you as his girlfriend or fiance get along with his family. No matter what they throw your way. Trust not every family member will be a pain, but you may have one that is really pushing it and asking to get slapped.
    Men are sometimes blind to the disrespect their family members do. They feel like it's just their way of messing with you, and drilling you. But he needs to understand...this is not damn boot camp. You are his woman, they have to accept that you are his woman. Their favorite line is " DO NT BE SO OFFENSIVE, YOU JUST HAVE TO GET TO KNOW THEM"

    See those smart comments, and interrogations can hit a nerve, especially if you're the new girlfriend.  Shade is shade. Joking is one thing, but if you feel shade, block it.
    When your guy brings you around his family it can either go two ways. Either the last chick he was dating was so awful they are delighted to have you in his life. 


    They loved his ex so much they think you are just a waste of his time and a waste of their time and they want no parts of you girl.

    Beware if he has sisters. I always felt brothers were easier to deal with. Men don't get into their brothers love life much, unless they feel like you're a gold digger. Majority of the time the sisters are known to give their brothers girlfriends a hard time.
    If you feel like the smart remarks and other things you are dealing with his family are becoming a bit much talk to your man. Remember this is his family. Most men are in denial about their damn family and the uncomfortable vibes the girlfriends go though. So tell him how you feel but watch your words.  Saying the wrong thing could jeopardize your relationship. If he ignores you it's your decision to deal with the disrespect or walk away. Thinking that marriage or baby will help them accept you doesn't always work. Be cool, breath, walk away if a family member tries you. You don't want to be next year's holiday topic when he brings his new girlfriend. 

    Wednesday, November 29, 2017

    *UPDATED* 22 year old Tyrika Terrell- Gunned Down At Work By Ex Boyfriend

    Please Share Her Story 

    "Update on story"
    December 2, 2017

    Her ex was taken into custody after he started a fire and shot himself during a two hour long standoff with police.
    Police found Quantez at a family members house on Friday, four days
    He also shot himself and tried to start a house fire before swat came in.  Also new discovery,  Tyrika called police to warn them Quantez had been threating to kill her a week before and was stalking her at work.  Again the police failed another one of our girls.  R. I. P angel he is caught you will get justice. 

    22 year old Tyrika Terrell was shot and killed by her ex boyfriend and child's father at her job.  Tyrika worked at the post office for 3 weeks in Decatur Georgia,  when her ex stalked her job at the near by coin laundry before gunning her down at her job. Witnesses say the gate was not secure and he came right in without a problem entering.  Tyrika mother was waiting to pick her up when the gun shots were heard.  Neighbors say he was a violent guy and had a temper.

    Please keep Tyrika family in your prayers but most importantly her child who is now motherless. Girls please get out the first sign of abuse or violence.

    This is real shit.  Your life matters. These men will never change. You are precious and don't ever allow a man to hurt you.  If you can't fight back, reach out for help until someones listens and helps. If you know someone who is with a abusive person please helo.  Don't wait until a tragedy like this hapoens

     So far the shooter is still out there.
     Tyre is 5 feet 8 inches tall and weighing about 160 pounds. He was last seen running towards Wesley Chapel Road. Police consider him armed and extremely dangerous.

    Her family has started a go find page.  She was a young mother and has a child who has now lost a mother.


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    Sunday, November 19, 2017

    Kayla Got The 411 Podcast: Episode 3- "Fake Friends"

    Episode 2 🎙
    "F*ck A Fake Friend Where Are Your Real Friends?"
    Whats the 411? @NickiMinaj Broke The Internet With Paper Magazine "MINAJ À TROIS" cover. @MeekMill sentenced 2-4 years for probation violation. Fair or Wrong?
    Girl talk discussion this week... F*ck A Fake Friend Where Are Your Real Friends. Don't get bit by thinking someone's who's a fraud is your real friend.
    Listen on #soundcloud, #Spreaker, #GooglePlay #youtube #ITunes

    Listen to "Episode 3: Fake Friends" on Spreaker.