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Showing posts with label cute. Show all posts
Showing posts with label cute. Show all posts

Saturday, January 28, 2017

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Tuesday, December 6, 2016

How To Tell Him You Aren't Interested

I'm that girl if I am not interested I won't waste a guys time or mine. I'm blunt straight shooter. So when I turn down guys I may not have done it the right way because they sometimes are offended. You may be like me. Then there's the other type of girls. She doesn't like him what so ever and would rather not tell him. Which this usually leads a guy on. Neither are right. Men have feelings too. Just because you are attractive we should consider his feelings. Here are some ways we can let guys know we aren't interested.


Honesty

The most important thing is being truthful. Let him know you aren't into him the way he's into you. But don't exactly say it like that. Telling him its not him but it's you  is lame, but guess what? The shit works lol. Or if its deeper issues I suggest not going into depth. Unless you two already dated I don't see the need to, but you have to let men know. Any body who leads someone on are super corny in my eyes.
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 Avoid Him

Now let me be clear. Sometimes honesty doesn't always work.. If that's your case you have to get ghost. Don't answer calls or texts, or dms. If it has gotten this far, well girl he must be mighty sprung on you.  I say go out get more active. Get busy so you wont feel bad when you say you are busy. It will mean you truthfully are busy.
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 Don't Be To Friendly

This is one that to many women do. Smiling and grinding in a man's face and you know you have no interest in him. Accepting date offers, gifts and money will cause a man to flip out on you in the end. By accepting those nice gestures you are basically telling him you like him. 
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Play Match Maker

I have done this before. It only will work if you %100  do not want him. I suggest finding somebody who you think may like him. If he had someone who he could kick it with and get to know, maybe he wouldn't sweat you as much. Now if they vibe and get married one day and live happily ever after, don't get jealous.
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 Don't Play The "Like Game"

This is something I had to learn. On Instagram and snap chat we have to be careful. Guys who like 20 post or give us the πŸ˜˜πŸ˜πŸ˜— emoji. It means something. Don't do the same if you aren't interested. Trust me. I have gone as far as to being friendly and before I know it I got πŸ† in my inbox. Thank you is the best response. Not "thank you're cute too"


Saturday, November 19, 2016

The Curse Of Men (Mariah Carey,Jennifer Lopez, Halie Berry


I hate to be petty. But I know you all love when I be petty. I'm having some concerns, frustrations, so many other words also about these 3 beautiful, talented, successful women. I'm just gone spit it out. THEY CANT KEEP NO MAN. I just don't understand why it always ends bad for them. These are 3 of the most beautiful women in the entertainment business. Yes Beyonce and Rihanna are beautiful too. But this post isn't about them. 

So its all over the blogs, now my blog about the big fight Mariah Carey and ex fiancΓ© James Packer. Remember she was married to Nick Cannon and had two twins before that went south. Anyways, well now her and this billionaire are beefing. She thinks he's trying to ruin the holidays. He thinks she's unstable allegedly. I got to thinking, Mariah, Halie, Jlo stay with man drama. They all are similar in age. This is something that's been going on since they were in the beginning of their career.  I don't know if its them or they choose the wrong men. Let's break down the situations with their latest guys. 
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halle berry olivier martinez



It's been over a year. Halle filled for divorce, But they seem to still be vacationing and spending the holidays together.  Nahla the 8 yr old with ex-boyfriend Gabriel, had issues as well. Let's not forget that big fight back between Gabriel and Oliver. Now we all know her ex husband Eric Benet who came out to support her other ex David Justice in that twitter rant. He accused her and her PR team of lying about domestic violence in their relationship. Let's just say Halle is not cool with none of her exes.
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        Jennifer lopez and casper smart




Now Jennifer Lopez can't seem to hold on to her men neither, but the difference between her and Halle, Jennifer's exes actually like her lol. When she got with back up dancer Casper the world was like #girlstop. But when we saw him by her side and her happy and him playing with her kids by ex Marc Anthony, who recently preferred to them as brother and sister after they shared a kiss online. Anyways 😐. Well Casper and Jennifer are supposedly broken up. It may be their 17th break up since dating. According to people magazine 
She kicked him out because he cheated on her and he got caught,” says the source. “It happened two years ago, and he promised he would never do it again and once he did, she was done.” Jennifer said her self she loves hard. Whatever that means.
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            mariah carey james packer


Lastly the Holiday Queen herself. She's dated her manager. Allegedly rapper Eminem some athletics and when she finally had kids, it was with Nick star Nick Cannon. We all were wondering why, and how. But like Jennifer & Casper they grew 
on us as a couple. Only to break up.
Now her and ex fiance James Paker are in a media war. Mariah says he's a opportunist allegedly. 
 A source previously told ET that Carey feels she is owed a $50 million “inconvenience fee” she believes was discussed in prenup negotiations, despite never actually tying the knot





It seems like with Halle its her way or the high way. No compromising in relationships. She's so easy to walk away. With Jennifer she loves and trusts to much. Every guy she dates it seems like she falls hard. With Mariah I can't figure out what her issue is.