How To Avoid Getting Sprung ( Dickmerized)

Have you ever had a guy put it down so well whether it was sexually or his personality that you found your self checking his social media daily? Or looking at your phone wondering if he is going to call?

Girl, you may be sprung or shall I like to say "Dickmerized". So good it has you doing dumb, not so smart stuff.  Those are the worst type of feelings to catch for someone. His sex is so good you are blinded by his flaws. Lusting over him but in reality he ain't worth it.

There's a girl right now with a broke, non working man in her house, driving her car, eating her food but putting good sex on her. She is dickmerized.

Good sex can be hard to find, but it's not worth your pride and dignity.  Don't get blinded and ignore the red flags. Putting up with cheating because the sex is good? Snap out of it!

How To Avoid Getting Sprung
 ( Dickmerized)?

How about not putting out. Don't give a guy any sexual attention until he can prove his worth to you. Not having sex is the easiest way not to get sprung over a guy. Also don't see him too often.  Spending time with a guy every day, or all day is a quick way to catch feelings. Talk a few times throughout the week. You can still get to know him instead of getting attached to him. Lastly date. If you're not use to male attention it's easy to get too attached to the wrong guy.
Have fun be safe, don't catch feelings for the wrong guy. Don't let him get you dickmerized. Do what Rihanna does,  have fun don't bring them home.

Should You Flaunt It, If You Got It?

Kim Kardashian is the hot topic at the moment due to another nude picture posted on her Instagram. There is a huge debate going on with many people all over social media. The biggest question I have seen was "Why"? She's successful, has a a wealthy husband and 3 kids. This is normal for Kim,  but after her Robbery in Paris she took a break from social media while little sister Kylie became the hottest out the crew.  Kim is obviously a beautiful  woman. Only a hater would deny that. Just because you got it,  does that mean you should flaunt it? 

Look I am all for women's empowerment. I believe women should love themselves inside and out.  You don't need to flaunt it to feel good about yourself,  but some do like the attention of others to make them feel validated and important. 

We live in a time where in 2050 our grandchildren will be able to see a lot more than they would anticipate. There will be twerk videos, drunken snap chats for our grand kids to look back on.  Right now we are just living it up, without thinking about that. 

Women who put themselves out there are always labeled as a hoe.  It's been a stigma that really annoys me.  If a woman does it she's a hoe,  if a man does it he's sexy. Should you flaunt your body if that's what you want?  Yes and No.  What you do is your battle  especially if you are a married woman.  What you do is a representation of your man. So if you know that posting your bare ass online could upset your man,  flaunting it may not be a good idea.  Most men like to feel like their woman only belongs to them.  So me being a woman I can't imagine a man seeing his wife naked to tell you what it feels like. In Kim Kardashian case lots of people feel he doesn't really care much. Personally most men will go off if their girl left the house braless. 

So because you have a big butt,  nice boobs,  and flat tummy should a woman have the right to flaunt it any and everywhere?  Would you do it? 

Kayla Got The 411 Podcast: Episode 3- "Fake Friends"

Episode 2 🎙
"F*ck A Fake Friend Where Are Your Real Friends?"
Whats the 411? @NickiMinaj Broke The Internet With Paper Magazine "MINAJ À TROIS" cover. @MeekMill sentenced 2-4 years for probation violation. Fair or Wrong?
Girl talk discussion this week... F*ck A Fake Friend Where Are Your Real Friends. Don't get bit by thinking someone's who's a fraud is your real friend.
Listen on #soundcloud, #Spreaker, #GooglePlay #youtube #ITunes

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Kayla Got The 411 Podcast : Episode 2: "Who's Relationship Goals? "

Whats the 411?
 Actor/Singer Tyrese social media meltdown. Cardi B & Offset engaged.
Justin & Selena rekindling that old flame.
Girl talk discussion this week...
"Who's Relationship Goals?

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Kayla Got The 411 Podcast-Episode 1: Sidechick Predicament

If you believe in yourself you can do anything. This southern girl has taken the blog on air.  It's been 2 years since I started this website.  Why not build a brand.  Blogs,  podcast, books.

With myself getting sick twice in one month losing my voice.  With me breaking my new mic.  Also struggling editing this podcast.  The first episode stressed me out.  I do admit I am a control freak over my own material.

The first episode this week is What's the 411? Film Producer Harvey Weinstein alleged sexual assault victims come forward. Girl talk discussion this week... how to avoid getting yourself into a "Sidechick Predicament."
You can listen so far on SoundCloud, YouTube, and spreaker.
Hopefully by tomorrow you can listen on itunes and Google play.

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Wendy Williams: Husband Caught Creeping & Shacking Up

So He Creeps? Oh boy,  the daily mail dropped a 💣for real today.  Looks like someone has been following talk show host Wendy Williams husband Kevin Hunter for over a year now.  The tea they gathered is so hot my fingers are scorching as I type this.

Talk show host Wendy Williams is a radio legend now TV host.  With 9 seasons on air that is epic for a black woman. But girl..... As much crap she talk daily on her show about other celebrities,  she should have knew that her husband was shacking up nine miles from her family home with another woman who's much younger.

This is something we women do alot.  We judge women,  and put down others relationships to the point we are clueless on what the hell is going on in our home. I don't care who you are,  or what you do. If Beyonce allegedly got cheated on,  all our asses can too.  You can't worry about someone elses lawn when yours is 4 ft high.

Photo credit (Daily Mail)

Kevin Hunter also Wendy's manager allegedly has a home worth 750,000 with this 32 yr old massage therapist Sharina Hudson. He got her almost a 1 million dollar home, with money he made from Wendy Williams brand.  He even has his damn name on the mail box. They have being eating out at restaurants and going to the gym.  They supposedly have been together more than10 yrs now a source told daily mail. 

Now I hope Wendy is not that dumb she couldn't have realized her husband was living with another woman and still coming home to her and her kids.  I mean why have a hot topics team if they can't get the scoop on you too.  This is a big epic embarrassment for the talk show host. She was just giving Kevin Harts wife Eniko advice through the TV screen about cheating husbands.  Also you all her husband was seen with the alleged mistress right after her public vacation with husband Kevin to 🇧🇧 2 weeks ago. 

Photo Credit ( Daily Mail)

Let's see if Wendy mentions this.  Now this is not the first rumor of him cheating,  Mrs. Wendy has admitted of infidelity in the pass from Kevin and says she doesn't regret forgiving him because it made the marriage stronger. Wendy has publically showed her despise of sidechicks. 

Hey Wendy!!  Girl what you gone do?

What can she do?

Read full article here to see timeline of pictures 

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4899912/Wendy-Williams-husband-leads-double-life-mistress.html

Kayla Got The 411: #GirlPower

Story Time:

I was at work and this lady was 15 minutes late for a interview. I come in from break and she's by my desk.  I said " hey have you been helped?" She let me know she was here for a interview in accounting. She said "they're doing work on Interstate 285 so traffic was hell,  coming from Stone Mountain".

So I called over and the person who interviewed her has a, reputation of being a "strict" 

She said "Did that lady just get here?"

I paused and just instantly lied.

 "It looks like she's been waiting in the lobby, I came in and saw her just sitting. I just came back from break no one has helped her,  but I will send her over".

The girl said "OMG thank you".  I said it's ok good luck on your interview.

30 minutes later she came and found me and hugged me.  She said, "girl thank you for having my back. I got the job,  I start Monday".  I told her we black women gotta look out for one another. Just women in generally.  I'm happy you got it.  She was so happy. She said sadly most women especially black women don't stick up or help one another as much.  I told her no problem I have been there and I understand.  She said lunch on me lol.

It truly warmed my heart.  I didn't do it for a reward.  I know when you travel for a interview anything can happen to cause you to be late. Things happen.  Seeing her happy made me happy.  I truly believe if I told her interviewer she was late and just arrived it would of ruined her chances.

So girls let's look out for one another.  One compliment or kind gesture can do alot for another woman.  Girl power. 

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