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Showing posts with label nickiminaj. Show all posts
Showing posts with label nickiminaj. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 25, 2017

20 Something's (When Life Gets Real)


Singer SZA had a song off her debut album CTRL called 20 some thing's. There is a line where she sings "Honesty hurts when you're gettin' older" which really got me to thinking. I will be turning 26 years old in September. My 20s have been a life assessment for me.  I moved out at 18 to attend college and life really hit home for me. I had a daughter at age 21 who I have to provide for and protect. In our 20 some thing's, you will learn what being a true adult means.  When we were kids we wished upon a star to become a grown up.  Now we wish we could go back in time when we didn't have bills,  taxes, and people breaking our hearts with no empathy what so ever. Those fairy tale books we read as kids,  thinking life was one big magical place, Ha,  not so much anymore.  Life is savage. Sza also sings "Hopin' my 20 somethings won't end Hopin' to keep the rest of my friends Prayin' the 20 somethings don't kill me.  Do you also remember when you were in your teens you thought that crew of yours would be with you for a lifetime.. Now looking back you ask yourself how many of those friends are still your friends? You are either the friend who couldn't keep up,  or you are the friend who grown,  and matured and had to let the past go.



Our 20 somethings are a test run, 10 years long for us to fu*k up,  make mistakes,  learn from them and better ourselves. No 20 something year old knows everything. Look honey,  you may think you do,  but you don't.  All the crap I have experience at age 25 I still have more to experience and learn from. You have to live a little to understand the big picture of this thing called life.  In a perfect world some 20 year olds have found their true love,  married and have succeeded in their career.  The rest of us are working towards making a statement in life for ourselves. Trying to figure out exactly what the hell we even want to do and how to do it.  The struggle is real. Working odd jobs,  or working at a job that may bring in good money but it's torture having to go to a job you truly don't give a fu*k about  Truthfully,  so many of us 20 something year olds have managed to snag great jobs but hate doing it.  This is the time for us to work towards our goals. Fast cash,  but not cool helping a billionaire make more billions.  You won't accomplish anything if you don't put effort into it.  It is not hard to become discourage in our 20s.  Let's keep it real,  alot of us lack ambition.  We feel something should be given to us and the world should know and see our talent.  But Reality Replies Back.....



Dating is a struggle in our 20s. No one takes love serious anymore.  Side chicks and side dudes are being glorified. People are having kids outside marriage or have no thought of building a family and having a solid foundation.  Men don't court women anymore because we offer all our goods up for free without making him earn us.  There is no respect in dating anymore.  So if we as young women in our 20s don't respect ourselves,  our morals,  our body or have standards, how can we expect a man to respect us?  We should date as much as possible.  How can you know your type if you haven't actually took time to date.  Get to know men all while getting to know who you are.  Big difference in dating,  and thotting. 


Still we are going to be alright.  We have made it this far.  Things will get tough,  you may cry and feel like your life is so hard and stressful you hate life.  But come back and read this post.  Every time you make a mistake learn from it.  Ask yourself,  "Why is this happening to me". Also let love find you during these years. The best love comes unexpected.  Marriage is not going anywhere.. Get to know exactly who you are before committing to someone else's life.  Remember marriage is a partnership,  their baggage and struggles becomes yours added to what you already had.  Accomplish things in life, Go to college,  travel,  start a career of your own. This is our starting line,  let's give ourselves a head start to the finishing line. 






Sunday, July 23, 2017

Pastel Hair Trend





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Most trends can becoming tiring.  But the pastel hair trend is one I just love.  Soft colors dyed on hair weave or if you're are really bold your natural hair.  It is a unique trend that lots of hair stylist are attempting on their clients.
Holographic hair is actually the correct term for this hair trend.  But the results are pastel colors. The method used is called Hand pressing, which paints different patterns on a sheet of Plexiglas with hair dye.  Then the dye is placed onto the hair.  The colors give a unicorn type cotton candy color. Instead of strong bold colors the colors appear softer and tent.  Check out some of the stars rocking this hair color trend. Are you bold enough to try it? 











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Monday, May 15, 2017

Nicki Minaj Ex Group Member Sticks Up For Her Against Ex Boyfriend


Yikes! Looks like Nicki Minaj & her ex boyfriend Safaree old group member 7 even up spilled all the beans to @vladtv.

 Now Nicki & Safaree broke up back in 2014. Years later Safaree has stated 1st saying Nicki writes her own lyrics but later saying he wrote for her and he want a check. He has done many interviews bashing her writing credibility. Fans gave compared Safaree's own music to Nicki Minaj to see if he is a good writer. For example how Jay Z wrote for Dr Dre and has had major music success as a rapper. But their old time group member from HOODSTARZ says "Lies He Tell" Check Out Interview from VLADTV. Subscribe to them their interviews are always and subscribe to me too duh. Lol

juicy. http://www.vladtv.com/article/227971/7even-up-pulls-out-a-letter-safaree-sent-asking-him-to-ghostwrite




Monday, May 1, 2017

Met Gala 2017 ❗❗❗❗


Lala Anthony-Halle Berry-Nicki Minaj



 -Each year there is a fundraiser for the Metropolitan Museum of Art's Costume Institute. Bringing celebrities each year to slay for a particular theme. This year they honored "Comme des Garcons" designer Rei Kawakubo.
Everyone was suppose to wear bold, architectural designs of Kawakubo who is a 74 year old Japanese designer who founded Comme des Garcons in 1969. So that is where the theme comes from tonight.-



Madonna-Rihanna-Katy Perry

      Ashley Graham-Zendaya-Stelle Maxwelll

Saturday, March 11, 2017

Lurking !!!! When Is It Necessary?


Sometimes you end up on one persons page, then see somebody you know and go to their page, then another and another. Yes darling, you are a lurker. Don't trip it happens to all of us. But lurking isn't such a bad thing. For a woman who is mysterious about her mans activity you may want to lurk. Now I know there are some who believe"WHATS DONE IN THE DARK WILL COME TO LIGHT" Well I believe "If you think it, believe it, and look into it"

I have been cheated on before like allot of other good women. But because of my woman's intuition and smartness I listen to my gut and look into niggas.

Quick story. 

A few months back I was talking to a guy who seemed like he was digging me. He swore he was different not like the rest. God fearing, ambitious, good independent man, I thought. I told my best friend about him she was so happy that damn I may have found a good man. But I said to her "girl something not right". I kept saying it and she thought I was tripping and letting my past mess this up. So I followed my gut. After LURKING, I came across his ex, who I found out he had another woman in their shared home and that was the reason they broke up. After a few mins of lurking each week I came across a girl who was the reason for his last break up and was actually his girlfriend now. Yasss! He sweared he was different, and wouldn't lie, and cared. Bullshit right? 

Don't be the crazy chick going through his wallet, but if you think his ass up to something. Lurk and you may find resolution to the truth. Check out these 4 signs you need to take on the role of a detective and look into your partner. There is nothing worse than those women who are married 20 yrs and find out their man was creeping for the last 10 yrs πŸ’€. I mean people leave clues like rat leaves crumbs. Dint stalk no damn body. But look into it if you think something. Previous Post "WOMANS INTUITION"










Tuesday, March 7, 2017

Kiss & Tell "What We Are Telling Our Friends"



When it comes to men a women we tell secrets in different ways. Men normally tell a woman's business to brag on themselves. With women we normally tell a guys business as humor to our friends. Lets face it, men.and women Kiss and Tell. Let me break it down for you.

  1. Locker room gossip. When men gossip about you ladies in the gym locker room its to make him seem like the cool guy. This says allot about him. The only way he feels to fit in is by telling sex stories about you. Fuck boy activity.
  2. Men who really care about you will brag about you. By accident they may reveal personal things about you. For example you and your guy sex life may be great, and he may mention the great sex to his homies not thinking its your business too. Now every time his homies come around guess what they are thinking lol.
  3. Men are big on gossip about a woman's bad hygiene. If a man encounters bad breath, or smell vagina, trust he is spilling the beans. 
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  1. With us women we find daily humor in group chat gossip. If you send a penis picture to a woman, I can almost bet it will end up in a group chat. 9x out of 10 its because she thinks your penis is small. Think about it, why would you want to share a big one with your friends, its yours. πŸ˜‚
  2. If a woman is in a big fight over text, trust she is forwarding the conversation to her friends. Relationships are suppose to be private right? Not when shes fighting with you. 
  3. Bad dates are a big kiss and tell. If you don't pay, or show up late all of your business will be in the streets. With women news travels fast. 
Is it right to do...yeah maybe not. But its what both sexes do. Now you have a better idea of what your guy or girl may be telling.







Friday, February 24, 2017

Jam Of The Week πŸ”₯ Gucci Mane & Nicki Minaj- MAKE LOVE



Gucci Man @laflare1017 Teamed up with @nickiminaj for a slumber party pt2. And if you dont know what I mean by Slumber party you clearly arent real fans and you lame 😩. Their knew single "MAKE LOVE, is just πŸ”₯and if you disagree IDC because you a haterπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ They are united and did not disappoint.
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Check out full song...


Thursday, January 26, 2017

Womans Intuition


Being a woman is like being a superhero. We got the type of power men just dont have. That is "Womens Intuition". Every woman has it, but if you dont use it for your advantage it has no use. 

I would probably be with my ex who I dated for 4 years if it wasnt for my womans intuition.  5 years ago I had a dream one night he was telling a girl he loved her. I woke up in tears. I called him 6am asking is there someone else. He replied, "NO". After I looked through his facebook friends I came across a girl who was dating him as well. So it saved me and I left that relationship. 

A womans intuition is a gut feeling you get that something is not right and you shouldnt ignore it. It can help us discover the truth, and avoid bad situations. 



Even if your are insecure, that intuition is like a bee at a bbq outside, that wont leave you alone. Evenually you have to do something about it. If you got trust issues trust me I get it. Dont drive him away, give him a chance. But if you think it, look into it. For example, something is off in your relationship investigate first. Dont look like a idiot and jump to conclusions. 

I am the king of facts. I recently met a guy who I thought was really a good guy. But he always called me when he was at work, or in the car. Never when he was at home. My bestie thought I was bugging I followed my intuition and he was full of shit. Lol
Girls please dont think you are crazy following your intuition. Follow your heart, mind, you know yourself better then anymore else.


Friday, November 18, 2016

Girlfriend or Sidechick ?


Main chick, side chick are both stupid to me. You would think that every woman wants to be the ONLY chick. Guys show you what you are to them by the way they treat you. With his girlfriend he treats her with respect. He cares about her feelings. He doesn't want to hurt her and lies to protect that. With a side chick he is honest and your feelings aren't something he keeps in mind.

He Is Bluntly Honest

If you are dating a guy who opens up to you hes interested in other women. Well sweetie its obvious hes telling you that because he looks at you like a side chick. So he feels why not tell you. You shouldn't care.

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Not Bluntly Honest

You know you are his girlfriend and his only when he goes out of his way to protect your feelings. He may have a lock on his phone so you won't go in his phone and stroll his contact list to see a ex number. Sounds petty right? But its because your feelings towards him matters.
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Friendly Verbal Interactions

If he says to you that you are his homie, his friend. No kisses, no affection. But you two are actually sexual. He sees you as a friend no connection he's just smashing. He probably has a main woman at home.

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Loving Verbal Interactions


When he asks how's your day. He misses you. He's affectionate towards you. He has feelings for you. Men who love their girlfriend are affectionate to their girl.


He's doesn't open up to you

A guy who makes you his side chick are very secretive with you about where they work, egrre they live hell sometimes their names. He doesn't want you coming by his home. Or calling his job. Normally guys who see you as a sure chick won't follow you on social media. He has another somebody. He doesn't want you crossing paths into his real world.

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He told you everything


Girlfriends get to meet the family, friends, co workers even the pets. You probably have a key to his place and has his work number. 


Saturday, October 8, 2016

How To Tell Hes Cheating & Spare Yourself The Embarressment


The worse feeling ever is having someone else bring information to you about your man that you did know. By information I mean telling you your man is cheating. Its a big slap in the face. Now truth is no matter who you are, you can get cheated on. If  Halle Berry can get cheated on, we can too. But the best thing to do as a woman is always be aware of things different in your man.  A lot women have the signs right in front of their eyes but refuse to pay attention. I don't want you to take this post as all men cheat, because that is not true. But dont be so foolish to think you are so amazing and your sex is so great he would not dare cheat. Dont forget  Nicki Minaj got cheated on herself. Just do not be the girl in a 10 yr relationship who man cheated 8 of those years and had no idea.



  • If you call him and he does not pick up and sends a text right after, that is a sign, especially if it happens constantly. Why cant he answer the phone? "I'm busy". Well he could of said that on the phone as well. Pay attention to how many times he does this, and time of the day.

  • Changes password on phone and social media. If your guy was always open with his social media and phone, but suddenly he wants privacy. Ding  Ding. That is odd right? Look into that. It could mean he just wants his privacy or he just wants to keep his conversations private.

  • Rumors. Haters never want to see a happy couple. But if you start hearing rumors about your guy look into that. Sad thing is, sometimes the streets know more about your own relationship then you. Do not ignore them. Investigate for yourself.

Saturday, September 10, 2016

Boot Season


Boot Season is calling my name. Is it calling your name? Fall/Winter are the two seasons you can use accessories to make your outft come to life. Here are some fly boot styles that will be hot this year.

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Jessica Simpson 

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Free People Parisian Nights/Bulo


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Nine West 

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ShoeBuy.com

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Guess Condolan Tall Cutout Boots

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Yeezy Season 2 Low Boots

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ShoeBuy.com

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Giuseppe Zanotti

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UGG

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Guess

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Nordstrom

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Michael Kors

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Timberland/Shiekh Shoes

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Guess/Zappos

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Monday, August 29, 2016

My VMAS Best Dressed

Here are my top pick best dressed tonight #vmas . @nickiminaj @iamhalsey & @haileybaldwin
Slayed. ♥πŸ’™♥
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Wednesday, June 15, 2016

Jam of The Week-Nicki Minaj & Jerimiah Don't Hurt Me

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#pressplay πŸ”ŠπŸ”Š

@nickiminaj & @jeremih teamed up with @djmustard with a new single called #donthurtme which I love Nicki's verse as always. Take a listen and give thoughts.Is it πŸ”₯ or is it πŸ’€ You can purchase it on Tidal now and check out full song

http://tidal.com/album/62032892