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Showing posts with label girls. Show all posts

Monday, September 25, 2017

Wendy Williams: Husband Caught Creeping & Shacking Up


So He Creeps? Oh boy,  the daily mail dropped a πŸ’£for real today.  Looks like someone has been following talk show host Wendy Williams husband Kevin Hunter for over a year now.  The tea they gathered is so hot my fingers are scorching as I type this.


Talk show host Wendy Williams is a radio legend now TV host.  With 9 seasons on air that is epic for a black woman. But girl..... As much crap she talk daily on her show about other celebrities,  she should have knew that her husband was shacking up nine miles from her family home with another woman who's much younger.


This is something we women do alot.  We judge women,  and put down others relationships to the point we are clueless on what the hell is going on in our home. I don't care who you are,  or what you do. If Beyonce allegedly got cheated on,  all our asses can too.  You can't worry about someone elses lawn when yours is 4 ft high.

Photo credit (Daily Mail)
Kevin Hunter also Wendy's manager allegedly has a home worth 750,000 with this 32 yr old massage therapist Sharina Hudson. He got her almost a 1 million dollar home, with money he made from Wendy Williams brand.  He even has his damn name on the mail box. They have being eating out at restaurants and going to the gym.  They supposedly have been together more than10 yrs now a source told daily mail. 
Now I hope Wendy is not that dumb she couldn't have realized her husband was living with another woman and still coming home to her and her kids.  I mean why have a hot topics team if they can't get the scoop on you too.  This is a big epic embarrassment for the talk show host. She was just giving Kevin Harts wife Eniko advice through the TV screen about cheating husbands.  Also you all her husband was seen with the alleged mistress right after her public vacation with husband Kevin to πŸ‡§πŸ‡§ 2 weeks ago. 


Photo Credit ( Daily Mail)

Let's see if Wendy mentions this.  Now this is not the first rumor of him cheating,  Mrs. Wendy has admitted of infidelity in the pass from Kevin and says she doesn't regret forgiving him because it made the marriage stronger. Wendy has publically showed her despise of sidechicks. 



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Hey Wendy!!  Girl what you gone do?
What can she do?

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Thursday, September 21, 2017

ThrowBackThursday:Damn Kayla!

I never knew how creative I was at writing until others acknowledged it.  I won two poem contests in middle school.  With one,  I won 3rd place and my poem was displayed in their publishing book.  I went to college for design,  while there a English teacher told me she thought I was a amazing.

I remember I wrote lots of poems about how I was feeling. Lovely Face book reminded me of one titled "I'm Ready . "

I don't even remember this but I read it as if I never heard it and I myself am amazed. Now my English grammar is so ridiculous. Remember in 2009-2010 people thought it was cool to purposely misspell words.  Not cool at all.  Check it out.




Wednesday, September 20, 2017

Kayla Got The 411: #GirlPower

Story Time:

I was at work and this lady was 15 minutes late for a interview. I come in from break and she's by my desk.  I said " hey have you been helped?" She let me know she was here for a interview in accounting. She said "they're doing work on Interstate 285 so traffic was hell,  coming from Stone Mountain".

So I called over and the person who interviewed her has a, reputation of being a "strict" 

She said "Did that lady just get here?"

I paused and just instantly lied.

 "It looks like she's been waiting in the lobby, I came in and saw her just sitting. I just came back from break no one has helped her,  but I will send her over".

The girl said "OMG thank you".  I said it's ok good luck on your interview.

30 minutes later she came and found me and hugged me.  She said, "girl thank you for having my back. I got the job,  I start Monday".  I told her we black women gotta look out for one another. Just women in generally.  I'm happy you got it.  She was so happy. She said sadly most women especially black women don't stick up or help one another as much.  I told her no problem I have been there and I understand.  She said lunch on me lol.

It truly warmed my heart.  I didn't do it for a reward.  I know when you travel for a interview anything can happen to cause you to be late. Things happen.  Seeing her happy made me happy.  I truly believe if I told her interviewer she was late and just arrived it would of ruined her chances.

So girls let's look out for one another.  One compliment or kind gesture can do alot for another woman.  Girl power. 

Tuesday, September 5, 2017

Pretty Hurts?




Being pretty is a privilege and curse. Being pretty means to most men she's a catch. They see you and think, "shes the one." What can we offer men besides being pretty?  Can you cook?  Can you keep your house clean?  What type of goals do you see for yourself in the next 5 years?  Do you have higher education?  What's your skill? What do you do for your community? See if you can't answer those type of questions, you need to work on you. Being pretty will get him,  but will it keep him?




Pretty face,  big boobs,  thick thighs is what men want?  But I can almost bet allot of these men would go crazy if we all were just pretty and that was it. She couldn't cook a pack of noodles.  Her house was filthy,  only if she has a crib.  Sex so good, goes for hours and hours, but she doesn't work only lays on her a$$. Sounds like a one in a million.


                          Sarcasm..... 

You don't want to be a pretty girl with nothing going for herself.  Be the pretty girl with brains.  The pretty girl with ambition,  the pretty girl with hustle,  the pretty girl who's a boss.  Being pretty doesn't have to hurt.  Being pretty should just be a bonus to other awesome things you bring to the table.


Thanks... also if you are looking for me on Instagram. My account @kaylagotthe411blog was disabled due to the hack or just haters.  I have been reaching out to instagram daily. Current back up is just @kaylagotthe411

    

Tuesday, August 22, 2017

Who's Man?


What does it feel like having to constantly worry about other women taking your man?  Having to watch your man move on with the woman who possibly interfered in your relationship. As a woman who never experienced that can you imagine that feeling?  The humiliation, and feeling like  "Damn What's Wrong With Me?" But there's nothing wrong with you, something is wrong with him. Yes it is understandable that people fall out of love.  Let's keep it real,  some women are forced out of there relationship because another woman decided your man was a catch instead of a single or divorced man who's available.  What can you do if your man cheats or leaves you to be with another woman?  What you shouldn't do is be out here in these streets fighting over a man.  He's not worth it at all.  If he wants to go,  let karma take care of him.


Recently comedian Kevin Hart's wife Eniko Parrish had the nerves to respond to a follower on Instagram as if she was clearing up some things, but what she did was clarify everything ex wife Torrei Hart has been saying.  Kevin allegedly cheated on Torrei with Eniko and they got divorced 6 years ago, but Eniko claims her and Kevin started dating over 8 years ago, which was allegedly the reason for the failed marriage. Now keep reading. 


 Eniko responded to a follower 

“Their marriage was broken way before I came in the picture.. They were separated living in separate homes. I was never a secret." 

Now she took it upon her self to keep responding. She even went on to say Torrei spreads those lies trying to play victim. Now Torrei has been very classy and mature over the years allowing her and Kevin's kids to take family photos with a woman who is not there mother. 


Now what mother you know would allow her kids to take family photos with her ex husband and his new chick?  I'll wait πŸ•–. So Torrei gathered the other Mrs. Hart quickly by saying, 

“Eniko sweetheart normally I don’t feed in to this, but when you addressed me directly, you forced my hand to respond. We have made successful strides to become a loving co parenting family, but you have now left it open for my character to be questioned. You, Kevin, and I know the truth

Yasssss Torrei.  (ROUND OF APPLAUSE) 


Now we can't forget the biggest "Bitch I took your man", moment in Hollywood. Angelina is my girl, but I can never stand for her taking Jennifer Aniston husband Brad Pitt at the time.  Jennifer and Brad got married in 2000. Shortly after Mr & Mrs Smith hit theaters Brad and Jennifer were announcing they were getting divorced.  

Angelina is a shady home wrecker indeed.. She had no sympathy or remorse for taking that lady man lol. Brad admitted he fell in love with Angelina on the set of Mr & Mrs Smith.  

 Angelina and Brad were even spotted on vacation after the split,  and Angelina even got pregnant in 2006, a year after split from Jennifer. 



Brandy Glanville is known from Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.  She may have a bad reputation,  but she did not deserve what LeAnn Rimes did to destroy her family.  LeAnn has been so disrespectful as far as flaunting it. LeAnn not only took her man,  but also seems as if she wanted to take the damn woman kids too.  LeAnn the country singer career has suffered from her being known as a home wrecker. LeAnn's own ex husband spilled the beans.  He actually encouraged her to star in the lifetime movie that lead to her meeting Eddie and both cheating on their spouses. 




Here's Swiss & Alicia Keys.  It seems as if people really have turned a blind eye to what Alicia did.  Producer Swiss Beats was married to R&B star Mashonda .This has been a long messy triangle. I remember years ago Mashonda saying Swiss abandoned her and her son in a house that was falling apart and she couldn't afford it. The strange part is there's no real public timeline of when they actually started dating.  Alicia has said in the past Swiss and Mashonda were well broken up before she came alone.
 Swiss even had a baby with another random woman in 2008 during marriage to Mashonda then turned around and married Alicia Keys in 2009.

Well years later seems as if Mashonda has let things go and matured way more than I could.  Her ex husband Swiss Beats,  and Alicia Keys were spotted all on vacation together. Where Swiss and Alicia flaunted there love in front of her. 



Allot right?  Truthfully girls I could of kept going from Kylie Jenner,  Tyga,  and Blac Chyna to more. See the truth is women go through this daily.  He's your man,  then another woman decides she wants him. Then the big confusion starts where the question is,  who man is he? You are amazing,  if he doesn't want you,  you may cry,  curse. Trust me,  you will find love again. Let her have him.  Karma is my 1st cousin and she plays no games. 



Sunday, August 13, 2017

Protecting Your Valuables(The Truth About Feminine Products

I first started my menstrual at age 9. I remember not having a clue what to expect but my mom gave me a pad to put on my underwear.  I can't recall how many times I put a pad on wrong and messed up a pair of jeans. Then once my monthly cycle ended I was given a douche to refresh and supposedly clean my vagina from odors.  Not knowing what I know now,  I have been harming my body for so long.


As women it is very important we keep our body's safe and protected. Our body is a valuable jewel. You guard it with your life literally. Our vagina is precious.  We use our vaginas for many things which why it is very important we know what the hell we are putting near that area.
I came across a breakfast club interview where comedian Tiffany Haddish (Click To Hear Her Story) talked about when she was a young girl and used a tampon because she had no pads.  She talked about having to go to the hospital due to TSS shock.  Some of her symptoms were  high fever, low blood pressure, chills, dizziness, and light headed. I thought to myself "What the hell is that?"






According to WebMD one of the causes of TSS shock is the use of using tampons brands that use harmful chemicals. Trust,  they know that they are harmful but what profit would they make by telling women. They release poisonous substances from an overgrowth of bacteria named Staphylococcus aureus, or staph, which is commonly found in many women's bodies. The cotton we put inside us or from the pads are dyed,  and absorbed with very dangerous chemicals. Mucosa membranes line wall is  1/3 of our  vagina that protects us from bacteria but absorbs chemicals very very well. So that means those chemicals are getting into our bloodstream. The materials used in some tampon brands are using extreme pesticides and chemicals.  When I hear pesticide I think of poison. Procymidon and piperonyl butoxide are the most common. To some it may not be a big deal.  But when it is affecting our bodies it is important.  Some safer brands are Natracare, Diva Cup, Seventh Generation Chlorine Free Organic Cotton Tampons. We need our products.  But let's actually educate ourselves on what we are spending our money on.  



Douching is something I am guilty of doing for years before I knew more about the bad it was doing.  Growing up some use it after your menstrual to keep it clean and fresh.  Some even use it to help prevent sexual diseases.  Which is very confusing to me.  

The only thing to help that is safe sex.  But doctors studies show all that is a lie.  It can cause pregnancy complications and infections.  It is suppose to be a mixture of water and vinegar to help clean us out, which they contain antiseptics and fragrances. Douching can through off our natural balance. It can cause harmful infections including yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis and pelvic inflammatory disease. The safest way to clean our vagina's is using mild soaps, non fragrance sprays, and powders. Baby powders are very dangerous as well. Studies show most women who commonly use it below are more likely to get ovarian cancer. Also ladies. This may be something that sounds tempting on a hot sweaty day but baby powder is not something we should want to use below.

Girls I hope you enjoyed this post and most importantly take it serious. Our body is valuable it belongs to us. So lets protect our girl parts. For an questions please see links above. Also check out my previous post. Keeping your vagina purtty.







Tuesday, August 8, 2017

The Dating Struggle


If you haven't lucked up and already found a good man then girl keep reading. The problem isn't finding a man to date,  the struggle is dating men in this generation.  They don't even have the courtesy to ask  you on a date so they can get to know you.  Their ideal of a date is coming over to your crib,  hoping you cook or at least have snacks.  With hopes they can get to know you more by getting inside of you.  


It normally starts off,  "Send me a picture" or "When can I come see you? " You're thinking boy "I just met you".  Alot of women are single because they truthfully don't have the patience for it anymore.  Stop saving numbers in your phone,  because by the end of the year you will have a long list of contacts under names of guys you won't even remember. Why is dating is such a struggle for single girls?  

  1. Well first off men don't have respect for women.  There are so many thots out here who set the tone for modern day women.  Men think if she looks that good and she gives it up easy,  then all pretty girls give it up easy.  We have to demand men to respect us.  Stop sex on the first date,  that's even if you are asked on a date 
  2. We deserve to be taken out and felt special.  If he really likes you he should put some effort into it.  As a grown as woman that Netflix and chill is not hot and it's a cheap excuse for a man to use your wifi and watch your account,  smash,  and go home.  
  3. What's worse than talking to a guy who can't hold a intelligent conversation?  Almost as worst as watching paint dry.  Conversation is the key reason why women leave guys on read, we women want a man to stimulate our mind. 
  4. It's hard to find a available man.  Not guys who claim they are available,  men who have no wives or baby mamas hidden.  This is the biggest issue we have.  The 100 lies told to cover 1 lie.  All to avoid being caught up.  Literally these men are for everybody 

The best way to get through the dating struggle is to upgrade our taste in men,  and stop even wasting our time giving any ol body our time and energy.  The way he introduces himself says it all.  So what we may have to weed the bad ones out the bunch.  You gotta kiss a few frogs before you find your prince right?  Ha!  Truth is figure out what you can do different to change your dating experience.  It's not always the men,  sometimes it's just you.  



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Monday, May 15, 2017

Nicki Minaj Ex Group Member Sticks Up For Her Against Ex Boyfriend


Yikes! Looks like Nicki Minaj & her ex boyfriend Safaree old group member 7 even up spilled all the beans to @vladtv.

 Now Nicki & Safaree broke up back in 2014. Years later Safaree has stated 1st saying Nicki writes her own lyrics but later saying he wrote for her and he want a check. He has done many interviews bashing her writing credibility. Fans gave compared Safaree's own music to Nicki Minaj to see if he is a good writer. For example how Jay Z wrote for Dr Dre and has had major music success as a rapper. But their old time group member from HOODSTARZ says "Lies He Tell" Check Out Interview from VLADTV. Subscribe to them their interviews are always and subscribe to me too duh. Lol

juicy. http://www.vladtv.com/article/227971/7even-up-pulls-out-a-letter-safaree-sent-asking-him-to-ghostwrite




Friday, May 12, 2017

'DON'T ANSWER' πŸ“±

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As girls we have that ex who we always fall back in their arms. When we know deep down he is a ex for a reason. But men are very smart and sneaky on their plot to get us back.

I use to have a ex who always would let me know he was in town but would do so after 11pm. Now men who have dated us probably know our weakness. Now my weakness is Sex & Food lol. Now I had to put on my thinking hat a ask myself. "Girl, why come he over here the next morning, when you hated him yesterday"? If he texts me at 1pm in the afternoon he knew I would not entertain him. But if he hit me up at 1 a.m when I am half asleep and was hearing his deep sexy New Orleans accent on my phone line, I might give in. Which I always did for a while. Until I said Ohhhhhh no! I had "DO NOT ANSWER" as his name, but also blocked him. He would leave crazy voice mails but it helped.

Girl do not feel bad. As women we are soft, and sweet. But it only takes that 1 who you will always have a special place in your heart for. But don't let him suck you back in when you left him for a reason. When you wake up the next morning you are going to feel bad all over again for allowing him to get the best of you. Block him, change your number do what you have to do. I can almost promise you the only reason he is hitting you up is because someone else is unavailable. So be strong and "DON'T ANSWER".



Sunday, May 7, 2017

Keeping Your Vagina Purty




I like to think of a woman's vagina as a purse. Our purse holds lots of valuable things inside, and so does our vagina. As young girls either you had a mom who taught you how to keep yours up. Or you had to learn throughout life on your own. As women besides our period, the one thing that unites us is our vagina. We have to keep it clean, safe, tight, and purty. Check out some ways to help keep yours on fleek. 

1. The V-Steam


I had the chance to get the V-steam for my birthday with my bestie. Before I get all technical let me give you my definition of it. It is a bowl of water filled with herbs you sit on. While sitting on it you can feel the steam releasing the herbs into your vagina. Oh the shit is hot! Now I will mention I had went out the night before and I had a killer hangover that entire day after. But it was a hour long but it was for some reason so hot I almost said F it. πŸ˜‚After my vagina did feel different, it felt fresh, and tighter.


It's also known as a vaginal steam bath. You're naked or wearing a poncho cover up that feels like you can't breathe to increase the steam's effect which I had on. Koreans say it fights infections, reduces stress, eases PMS, and even increases fertility and tightens your vagina.


2. Cotton Underwear 


Doctors suggest that cotton panties are much healthier for our vagina's. They are soft and keep our vagina's safe from bacteria. When it is hot or you are at the gym it is suggested to wear thongs, only because cotton panties can get sweaty. Thongs are cute and a quick go to. But did you know thongs are a easy way for bacteria to go from your butt to your vagina, which can cause urinary trac infections. Yikes. 

3. Watch What You Eat!


Taste like sugar? Pineapples are not only good, sweet, and healthy but they do wonders for your vagina. I remember I was at work at my desk eating pineapples. This woman Tina came up to me and said " you know pineapples keep you sweet". I said,"huh"? She said google it and you will see. πŸ˜‚ Yes what you eat affects your vagina. Pineapples, applesyogurt, red grapescranberry juicelots of water, mint, watermelon,strawberries are suggested to help. 

4. Yearly Woman's Exam


If you are sexual active getting a yearly exam is key for your vagina. The same way you take your car to the shop, take yourself to the doctor yearly for the pelvic exam or when needed if you smell a off smell. Lets be real as adults our vagina wont smell like peaches and cream 24/7. The pap is something common. 

Your doctor will perform the speculum exam. A device called a speculum will be inserted into the vagina. The speculum is opened to widen the vagina so that the vagina and cervix can be seen by your doctor then your doctor will use a plastic spatula and small brush to take a sample of cells from the cervix and a sample of fluid from vagina to test for infection.


5. Trim Her Up



Having a bush down their is not sanitary. Whether you like bald eagle or a nice trim it's a must you get your vagina looking right. Trimming is always  a good idea. You can use safe baby scissors to neatly trim your puberty hair. Shaving creams with aloe vera and less chemicals is always key to use. Always shave in the direction hair is growing. Once done use a non antibacterial soap to scrub it up clean. Doing this weekly should keep her cute, purty and clean.

6. Kegels Please!


Kegels are a known factor for keeping the vagina tight and right. It takes practice to actually know which is your pelvic muscle. You have to stop urination in midstream. Once you figure it out you can do them any position and any place. No one will know. 

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Monday, April 10, 2017

Not The Right Time


You know that saying, "If its meant to be, it will be". Its 100% true. If you love someone, and they love you it will come together. If it doesn't it just means they weren't the one. If people love you they will fight for you. The main thing women ask for is their man to fight for them. Prove you love her, and want her. Chasing and fighting for someones heart is two different things.

Breakups can be easy, or hard. If its easy, that shows you they were not that special to you anyways. But if months, and years go by and no matter and you still wonder how they are doing, or are okay that tells you allot. But one thing I can say ladies. A mans role is to lead, protect, provide. The most you can do is tell him how you feel. The rest is up to him. If its worth it, it will be. If it isn't wait for love again. A love that sticks like super glue, and doesn't come apart. ❤

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Spring Fever 🌼


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Floral Is My Fav
Skirt:Canchic
Top:Choies
Shoes:Betsey Johnson

Spring is my favorite fashion season. I love floral for some reason. Floral pattern pieces are a fashion statement in itself. Floral will never go out of style. 

Monday, March 27, 2017

101 Love- Loving Who You Are


How can you truly love someone if you don't love yourself. Love & Happiness all begins within. You have to truly love the person you see in the mirror everyday. Life can be hard and confusing for people who don't know who the hell they are. 

There are allot of people who put down others on a daily because they aren't happy with who they are. The main people yelling "I'M THE SHIT" are the main ones unhappy in life and lost. You can't be the shit if you are constantly change yourself to get approval from others.

In relationships we women want a man to love us with all their heart. But how can you expect, or want love if you don't love yourself. If you don't love yourself how can you be mad at him for not loving a person who don't even love themselves. Real recognize real. Love recognize love as well. 

Get to know yourself, learn what you are good at. Figure out your favorite face feature.  Those little things matter and helps to build confidence. You can not wait for somebody to tell you how beautiful you are. Tell yourself everyday how damn sexy you are. Once you learn to love yourself you will learn to know your worth and what you deserve in life.



Saturday, February 4, 2017

Black Women Who Empowered( Dr. Mae Jemison)


It is black history month. Not many people pay tribute to the ones who made a difference for us blacks especially the women. Each week I will be paying homage to a black woman in history who empowered us and who is a strong black woman. Check out my 1st week pick.

Dr. Mae C. Jemison





Mae. C Jemison who is a Libra like myself, was the first black female astronaut. In 1992 she added another historic title by becoming the first black woman to go to space. She flew into space with six other astronauts aboard the Endeavour on mission STS47. When she was a little girl in Chicago she spent most of her free time at her school library reading many science books, especially astronomy books. She had a passion, and interest for space itself.


After highschool she received a Bachelors of Science in chemical engineering in 1977.
After she decided to get her M.D at Cornell University Medical College she later in 1985 decided to do a career change and do what she always inspired to do since she was a young girl.
 In that year, she applied to NASA's astronaut training program. The process was delayed, but she didnt give up, she reapplyed the following  year and was 1 of 15 candidates chosen from a group of about 2,000. 1987 she was finally choosen and it made her the first black female astronaut with the job title of a science mission specialist which she was responsible for conducting any crew related scientific experiments on the space shuttles.

When Jemison finally flew into space on September 12, 1992 she made lots of young black girls proud and gave us hope. She was in space for eight days along with six other astronauts. Her task was to conduct experiments on the weightlessness and motion sickness on the crew and herself. They returned on September 20, 1992. She later left the astronaut corps in 1993, and begin teaching fellowship at Dartmouth. She also established the Jemison Group which her company seeks research, develop and market advanced technologies.

Mae Jemison is one of many black women who have empowered women, inspired and motivated us. It shows if you work hard you can do and be anything you put your mind to. She is my first pick for "Black Women Who Empowered.


Thursday, February 2, 2017

Know Your Worth



With Valentines day approaching, their are allot of girls who are going to be last min plans. I'm here to tell you, KNOW YOUR WORTH.


  • For one, you shouldn't have to wonder if he likes you. Dealing with guys who sometimes calls you, sometimes asks you out is a sign to end that. Why should you settle for that. A guy who wants you will go out of his way to show you.
  • Second, don't allow him to make you uncomfortable. Flirting with girls, liking big booty models pictures on instagram is disrespectful. Him telling you "its just for fun" is bullshit. Know your worth, be with a guy who only has eyes for you.
  • Men who abuse you physically, or verbally is never right. Know that your happiness is very important. People who love you will know that and wont hurt you. Ask yourself what is it about you that is special? Write it down. After ask yourself does he deserve someone with those qualities.

Knowing your worth is all about self love. You have to see how great you are to fully know what you deserve. 


Thursday, January 26, 2017

Womans Intuition


Being a woman is like being a superhero. We got the type of power men just dont have. That is "Womens Intuition". Every woman has it, but if you dont use it for your advantage it has no use. 

I would probably be with my ex who I dated for 4 years if it wasnt for my womans intuition.  5 years ago I had a dream one night he was telling a girl he loved her. I woke up in tears. I called him 6am asking is there someone else. He replied, "NO". After I looked through his facebook friends I came across a girl who was dating him as well. So it saved me and I left that relationship. 

A womans intuition is a gut feeling you get that something is not right and you shouldnt ignore it. It can help us discover the truth, and avoid bad situations. 



Even if your are insecure, that intuition is like a bee at a bbq outside, that wont leave you alone. Evenually you have to do something about it. If you got trust issues trust me I get it. Dont drive him away, give him a chance. But if you think it, look into it. For example, something is off in your relationship investigate first. Dont look like a idiot and jump to conclusions. 

I am the king of facts. I recently met a guy who I thought was really a good guy. But he always called me when he was at work, or in the car. Never when he was at home. My bestie thought I was bugging I followed my intuition and he was full of shit. Lol
Girls please dont think you are crazy following your intuition. Follow your heart, mind, you know yourself better then anymore else.


Keke Palmer Takes Legal Action Against Singer Trey Songz

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@kekepalmer is taking legal action against @treysongz after she allegedly was put in his latest video without her permission while attending his supposely Miami party/video shoot. "So I low key feel bad for judging her before actually hearing the song and seeing the video. I get where she coming from, the line in the song that says her name and her playing with her phone was awkward. Somebody must of thought getting keke in the video during this part would be dope. I have been in situations like this before where I have fucking left or dont go. It is scary and uncomfortable having people ask you to do something you dont want to. But legal action is a lil far. I just want her to learn from this, everybody not your friend and got your best intrerest.

Saturday, January 21, 2017

Friday, January 20, 2017

[New Blog Post] You Got A Good Man

There is nothing worse then a woman who has a good man but don't realize it. Good men are instinct.  It's hard to find one, so when you find one lock him down. I understand sometimes if you never had a good man it may be hard to tell. Valentines the day of LOVE is coming soon. So this post if for you ladies wondering if your guy is a good man and how to find out. I got you keep reading. 


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1. He is respected by his ex.

A good man who ex still has nice things to say about him is a A+ in my eyes. Now you may not want details about what went wrong and right, but if his ex doesn't try to run him over when she sees him,  that's code for he isn't a asshole. Trust me exes are like  history books. Boring but full of great info. HA!
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2. He Wants To Know Who You Are 

A man who wants to know you and not just get inside you is a good man. A man who is interested in your dreams, goals, childhood past, is a man who wants to know you. Real women find this important.  If you are having sex with a guy for a year, and he hasn't asked you about your personal life...Girl. 
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3. Thoughtful 

If you got issues, financially , emotional a good man won't watch you struggle and suffer.  He is going to help you,and make sure you are okay. For example if your car breaks downs in the middle of the night,  a good man will come when you call. If he cares it will show, trust me.
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4. Supports You

A supportive man is a good man. He Wants to see you fulfill your dreams and see you do well. A good man won't sit back jealous because you got a promotion at work a s he hasn't.  If he is the one you can't wait to tell good news to, then that says alot. 

5. He Will Show You & Not Tell You 

A good man doesn't have to tell you how great he is, he will show you. He will be faithful, inspire you, make you feel beautiful by his actions. So many men say I'm a good man. How? When? Telling her isn't doing anything. Good men treat their girl good. If he does things  to make you happy and excited and feel butterflies that is always the sign he is a good man.