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Showing posts with label girls. Show all posts

Monday, May 15, 2017

Nicki Minaj Ex Group Member Sticks Up For Her Against Ex Boyfriend


Yikes! Looks like Nicki Minaj & her ex boyfriend Safaree old group member 7 even up spilled all the beans to @vladtv.

 Now Nicki & Safaree broke up back in 2014. Years later Safaree has stated 1st saying Nicki writes her own lyrics but later saying he wrote for her and he want a check. He has done many interviews bashing her writing credibility. Fans gave compared Safaree's own music to Nicki Minaj to see if he is a good writer. For example how Jay Z wrote for Dr Dre and has had major music success as a rapper. But their old time group member from HOODSTARZ says "Lies He Tell" Check Out Interview from VLADTV. Subscribe to them their interviews are always and subscribe to me too duh. Lol

juicy. http://www.vladtv.com/article/227971/7even-up-pulls-out-a-letter-safaree-sent-asking-him-to-ghostwrite




Friday, May 12, 2017

'DON'T ANSWER' πŸ“±

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As girls we have that ex who we always fall back in their arms. When we know deep down he is a ex for a reason. But men are very smart and sneaky on their plot to get us back.

I use to have a ex who always would let me know he was in town but would do so after 11pm. Now men who have dated us probably know our weakness. Now my weakness is Sex & Food lol. Now I had to put on my thinking hat a ask myself. "Girl, why come he over here the next morning, when you hated him yesterday"? If he texts me at 1pm in the afternoon he knew I would not entertain him. But if he hit me up at 1 a.m when I am half asleep and was hearing his deep sexy New Orleans accent on my phone line, I might give in. Which I always did for a while. Until I said Ohhhhhh no! I had "DO NOT ANSWER" as his name, but also blocked him. He would leave crazy voice mails but it helped.

Girl do not feel bad. As women we are soft, and sweet. But it only takes that 1 who you will always have a special place in your heart for. But don't let him suck you back in when you left him for a reason. When you wake up the next morning you are going to feel bad all over again for allowing him to get the best of you. Block him, change your number do what you have to do. I can almost promise you the only reason he is hitting you up is because someone else is unavailable. So be strong and "DON'T ANSWER".



Sunday, May 7, 2017

Keeping Your Vagina Purty




I like to think of a woman's vagina as a purse. Our purse holds lots of valuable things inside, and so does our vagina. As young girls either you had a mom who taught you how to keep yours up. Or you had to learn throughout life on your own. As women besides our period, the one thing that unites us is our vagina. We have to keep it clean, safe, tight, and purty. Check out some ways to help keep yours on fleek. 

1. The V-Steam


I had the chance to get the V-steam for my birthday with my bestie. Before I get all technical let me give you my definition of it. It is a bowl of water filled with herbs you sit on. While sitting on it you can feel the steam releasing the herbs into your vagina. Oh the shit is hot! Now I will mention I had went out the night before and I had a killer hangover that entire day after. But it was a hour long but it was for some reason so hot I almost said F it. πŸ˜‚After my vagina did feel different, it felt fresh, and tighter.


It's also known as a vaginal steam bath. You're naked or wearing a poncho cover up that feels like you can't breathe to increase the steam's effect which I had on. Koreans say it fights infections, reduces stress, eases PMS, and even increases fertility and tightens your vagina.


2. Cotton Underwear 


Doctors suggest that cotton panties are much healthier for our vagina's. They are soft and keep our vagina's safe from bacteria. When it is hot or you are at the gym it is suggested to wear thongs, only because cotton panties can get sweaty. Thongs are cute and a quick go to. But did you know thongs are a easy way for bacteria to go from your butt to your vagina, which can cause urinary trac infections. Yikes. 

3. Watch What You Eat!


Taste like sugar? Pineapples are not only good, sweet, and healthy but they do wonders for your vagina. I remember I was at work at my desk eating pineapples. This woman Tina came up to me and said " you know pineapples keep you sweet". I said,"huh"? She said google it and you will see. πŸ˜‚ Yes what you eat affects your vagina. Pineapples, applesyogurt, red grapescranberry juicelots of water, mint, watermelon,strawberries are suggested to help. 

4. Yearly Woman's Exam


If you are sexual active getting a yearly exam is key for your vagina. The same way you take your car to the shop, take yourself to the doctor yearly for the pelvic exam or when needed if you smell a off smell. Lets be real as adults our vagina wont smell like peaches and cream 24/7. The pap is something common. 

Your doctor will perform the speculum exam. A device called a speculum will be inserted into the vagina. The speculum is opened to widen the vagina so that the vagina and cervix can be seen by your doctor then your doctor will use a plastic spatula and small brush to take a sample of cells from the cervix and a sample of fluid from vagina to test for infection.


5. Trim Her Up



Having a bush down their is not sanitary. Whether you like bald eagle or a nice trim it's a must you get your vagina looking right. Trimming is always  a good idea. You can use safe baby scissors to neatly trim your puberty hair. Shaving creams with aloe vera and less chemicals is always key to use. Always shave in the direction hair is growing. Once done use a non antibacterial soap to scrub it up clean. Doing this weekly should keep her cute, purty and clean.

6. Kegels Please!


Kegels are a known factor for keeping the vagina tight and right. It takes practice to actually know which is your pelvic muscle. You have to stop urination in midstream. Once you figure it out you can do them any position and any place. No one will know. 

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Monday, April 10, 2017

Not The Right Time


You know that saying, "If its meant to be, it will be". Its 100% true. If you love someone, and they love you it will come together. If it doesn't it just means they weren't the one. If people love you they will fight for you. The main thing women ask for is their man to fight for them. Prove you love her, and want her. Chasing and fighting for someones heart is two different things.

Breakups can be easy, or hard. If its easy, that shows you they were not that special to you anyways. But if months, and years go by and no matter and you still wonder how they are doing, or are okay that tells you allot. But one thing I can say ladies. A mans role is to lead, protect, provide. The most you can do is tell him how you feel. The rest is up to him. If its worth it, it will be. If it isn't wait for love again. A love that sticks like super glue, and doesn't come apart. ❤

Also check out this cool app http://sharepop.co/ff1758

Spring Fever 🌼


Spring Fever 🌼
Floral Is My Fav
Skirt:Canchic
Top:Choies
Shoes:Betsey Johnson

Spring is my favorite fashion season. I love floral for some reason. Floral pattern pieces are a fashion statement in itself. Floral will never go out of style. 

Monday, March 27, 2017

101 Love- Loving Who You Are


How can you truly love someone if you don't love yourself. Love & Happiness all begins within. You have to truly love the person you see in the mirror everyday. Life can be hard and confusing for people who don't know who the hell they are. 

There are allot of people who put down others on a daily because they aren't happy with who they are. The main people yelling "I'M THE SHIT" are the main ones unhappy in life and lost. You can't be the shit if you are constantly change yourself to get approval from others.

In relationships we women want a man to love us with all their heart. But how can you expect, or want love if you don't love yourself. If you don't love yourself how can you be mad at him for not loving a person who don't even love themselves. Real recognize real. Love recognize love as well. 

Get to know yourself, learn what you are good at. Figure out your favorite face feature.  Those little things matter and helps to build confidence. You can not wait for somebody to tell you how beautiful you are. Tell yourself everyday how damn sexy you are. Once you learn to love yourself you will learn to know your worth and what you deserve in life.



Saturday, February 4, 2017

Black Women Who Empowered( Dr. Mae Jemison)


It is black history month. Not many people pay tribute to the ones who made a difference for us blacks especially the women. Each week I will be paying homage to a black woman in history who empowered us and who is a strong black woman. Check out my 1st week pick.

Dr. Mae C. Jemison





Mae. C Jemison who is a Libra like myself, was the first black female astronaut. In 1992 she added another historic title by becoming the first black woman to go to space. She flew into space with six other astronauts aboard the Endeavour on mission STS47. When she was a little girl in Chicago she spent most of her free time at her school library reading many science books, especially astronomy books. She had a passion, and interest for space itself.


After highschool she received a Bachelors of Science in chemical engineering in 1977.
After she decided to get her M.D at Cornell University Medical College she later in 1985 decided to do a career change and do what she always inspired to do since she was a young girl.
 In that year, she applied to NASA's astronaut training program. The process was delayed, but she didnt give up, she reapplyed the following  year and was 1 of 15 candidates chosen from a group of about 2,000. 1987 she was finally choosen and it made her the first black female astronaut with the job title of a science mission specialist which she was responsible for conducting any crew related scientific experiments on the space shuttles.

When Jemison finally flew into space on September 12, 1992 she made lots of young black girls proud and gave us hope. She was in space for eight days along with six other astronauts. Her task was to conduct experiments on the weightlessness and motion sickness on the crew and herself. They returned on September 20, 1992. She later left the astronaut corps in 1993, and begin teaching fellowship at Dartmouth. She also established the Jemison Group which her company seeks research, develop and market advanced technologies.

Mae Jemison is one of many black women who have empowered women, inspired and motivated us. It shows if you work hard you can do and be anything you put your mind to. She is my first pick for "Black Women Who Empowered.


Thursday, February 2, 2017

Know Your Worth



With Valentines day approaching, their are allot of girls who are going to be last min plans. I'm here to tell you, KNOW YOUR WORTH.


  • For one, you shouldn't have to wonder if he likes you. Dealing with guys who sometimes calls you, sometimes asks you out is a sign to end that. Why should you settle for that. A guy who wants you will go out of his way to show you.
  • Second, don't allow him to make you uncomfortable. Flirting with girls, liking big booty models pictures on instagram is disrespectful. Him telling you "its just for fun" is bullshit. Know your worth, be with a guy who only has eyes for you.
  • Men who abuse you physically, or verbally is never right. Know that your happiness is very important. People who love you will know that and wont hurt you. Ask yourself what is it about you that is special? Write it down. After ask yourself does he deserve someone with those qualities.

Knowing your worth is all about self love. You have to see how great you are to fully know what you deserve. 


Thursday, January 26, 2017

Womans Intuition


Being a woman is like being a superhero. We got the type of power men just dont have. That is "Womens Intuition". Every woman has it, but if you dont use it for your advantage it has no use. 

I would probably be with my ex who I dated for 4 years if it wasnt for my womans intuition.  5 years ago I had a dream one night he was telling a girl he loved her. I woke up in tears. I called him 6am asking is there someone else. He replied, "NO". After I looked through his facebook friends I came across a girl who was dating him as well. So it saved me and I left that relationship. 

A womans intuition is a gut feeling you get that something is not right and you shouldnt ignore it. It can help us discover the truth, and avoid bad situations. 



Even if your are insecure, that intuition is like a bee at a bbq outside, that wont leave you alone. Evenually you have to do something about it. If you got trust issues trust me I get it. Dont drive him away, give him a chance. But if you think it, look into it. For example, something is off in your relationship investigate first. Dont look like a idiot and jump to conclusions. 

I am the king of facts. I recently met a guy who I thought was really a good guy. But he always called me when he was at work, or in the car. Never when he was at home. My bestie thought I was bugging I followed my intuition and he was full of shit. Lol
Girls please dont think you are crazy following your intuition. Follow your heart, mind, you know yourself better then anymore else.


Keke Palmer Takes Legal Action Against Singer Trey Songz

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@kekepalmer is taking legal action against @treysongz after she allegedly was put in his latest video without her permission while attending his supposely Miami party/video shoot. "So I low key feel bad for judging her before actually hearing the song and seeing the video. I get where she coming from, the line in the song that says her name and her playing with her phone was awkward. Somebody must of thought getting keke in the video during this part would be dope. I have been in situations like this before where I have fucking left or dont go. It is scary and uncomfortable having people ask you to do something you dont want to. But legal action is a lil far. I just want her to learn from this, everybody not your friend and got your best intrerest.

Friday, January 20, 2017

[New Blog Post] You Got A Good Man

There is nothing worse then a woman who has a good man but don't realize it. Good men are instinct.  It's hard to find one, so when you find one lock him down. I understand sometimes if you never had a good man it may be hard to tell. Valentines the day of LOVE is coming soon. So this post if for you ladies wondering if your guy is a good man and how to find out. I got you keep reading. 


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1. He is respected by his ex.

A good man who ex still has nice things to say about him is a A+ in my eyes. Now you may not want details about what went wrong and right, but if his ex doesn't try to run him over when she sees him,  that's code for he isn't a asshole. Trust me exes are like  history books. Boring but full of great info. HA!
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2. He Wants To Know Who You Are 

A man who wants to know you and not just get inside you is a good man. A man who is interested in your dreams, goals, childhood past, is a man who wants to know you. Real women find this important.  If you are having sex with a guy for a year, and he hasn't asked you about your personal life...Girl. 
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3. Thoughtful 

If you got issues, financially , emotional a good man won't watch you struggle and suffer.  He is going to help you,and make sure you are okay. For example if your car breaks downs in the middle of the night,  a good man will come when you call. If he cares it will show, trust me.
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4. Supports You

A supportive man is a good man. He Wants to see you fulfill your dreams and see you do well. A good man won't sit back jealous because you got a promotion at work a s he hasn't.  If he is the one you can't wait to tell good news to, then that says alot. 

5. He Will Show You & Not Tell You 

A good man doesn't have to tell you how great he is, he will show you. He will be faithful, inspire you, make you feel beautiful by his actions. So many men say I'm a good man. How? When? Telling her isn't doing anything. Good men treat their girl good. If he does things  to make you happy and excited and feel butterflies that is always the sign he is a good man.




Saturday, January 7, 2017

Which Engagement Ring Is For Her?



So it's the season lucky girls are getting engaged and planning weddings. The 1st step is when that lucky guy propose with the ring of your dreams. I always feel like a man should ring shop not with price always on mine, but your girlfriend on mine. Going into a jeweler asking where are the most expensive or not so expensive rings is all wrong. The right way is describing your girls style, and personality to them and have then show you those particular rings. Bring a friend of hers or even a family member. The ring does matter. Its a reflection of how well he knows you and him thinking about you. If he picks a ring he likes and not you, he's basically buying it for himself. Girls, sometimes we don't know what we would like neither. Its okay. I came across this cool site where it quiz's you.
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These were my results its creepy because its spot on. I am unique I always like to be different. If I got a ring just like somebody I know I may be in my feelings about it. I love different shapes or stones in jewelry. I only wear GOLD, even since I was a kid. I want a wow ring. So unique something you don't see everyday.

But take my bestie who also took the quiz.

She's simple, layed back. She likes traditional. Not so out of the box. Something classic and shouts elegant. Diamond or stone is the focus point.

So see how our taste are so different. Ring does matter. You want to be happy, and he should want you to be happy. πŸ˜€



Thursday, December 15, 2016

2016 Fashion Trends That Are A Must For 2017

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2016 is coming to a end in a few weeks. Whether you had a good year, or a bad one. We all can agree this year was all about trends, and being bold with fashion and beauty.
I picked out some of my favorite trends I saw a lot of this year. 

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Faux locs

Oh my beautiful sistas slayed 2015 with poetic justice braids. 2016 was big on faux locs. So many beauty salons raised the prices because it was a high demand this year. They are braids that are wrapped into your hair to create length. They differ from dreadlocks which make use of your own hair which is matted to form a dread or lock.
Even celebrities like Meagan good, Rihanna & Tyra banks even gave them a try. This is a trend I'm loving and interested in trying myself going into the new year



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Chokers


The 90s are most definitely a popular trend to steal from. Chokers are a trend that became very popular this year. Chokers look best with a off shoulder top fashion experts say. A simple black choker necklace can change the entire vibe of your outfit. They come in different shades, width, and designs. Its a trend that may stick around a little longer. Mainly because they are so inexpensive.



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Furs & Faux Furs

Whether you are a animal lover or not. Furs and faux furs are for both sides. This was a heavy trend this year. Furs use to be something the stars would wear. But between out favorite retail stores forever 21, & top shop. You two can rock them at a good price. And we did this year 



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Over The Knee Boots

What's hotter than a fierce woman rocking a fierce over the knee boot? I can't think of anything. Between Kim Kardashian & Rihanna stepping out in fierce boots and online fashion bloggers. This year was definitely topped with the over the knee boot. Normally every year shoe trends change. Just last year the boot wedge was in. I'll look out for this one.


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Off Shoulder Tops

A perfect match with the choker are off shoulder tops. Whether they are one shoulder, cut out shoulder  it was a heavy trend. This was a 70s trend and in 2016 us girls brought it back well.









Friday, November 18, 2016

Girlfriend or Sidechick ?


Main chick, side chick are both stupid to me. You would think that every woman wants to be the ONLY chick. Guys show you what you are to them by the way they treat you. With his girlfriend he treats her with respect. He cares about her feelings. He doesn't want to hurt her and lies to protect that. With a side chick he is honest and your feelings aren't something he keeps in mind.

He Is Bluntly Honest

If you are dating a guy who opens up to you hes interested in other women. Well sweetie its obvious hes telling you that because he looks at you like a side chick. So he feels why not tell you. You shouldn't care.

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Not Bluntly Honest

You know you are his girlfriend and his only when he goes out of his way to protect your feelings. He may have a lock on his phone so you won't go in his phone and stroll his contact list to see a ex number. Sounds petty right? But its because your feelings towards him matters.
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Friendly Verbal Interactions

If he says to you that you are his homie, his friend. No kisses, no affection. But you two are actually sexual. He sees you as a friend no connection he's just smashing. He probably has a main woman at home.

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Loving Verbal Interactions


When he asks how's your day. He misses you. He's affectionate towards you. He has feelings for you. Men who love their girlfriend are affectionate to their girl.


He's doesn't open up to you

A guy who makes you his side chick are very secretive with you about where they work, egrre they live hell sometimes their names. He doesn't want you coming by his home. Or calling his job. Normally guys who see you as a sure chick won't follow you on social media. He has another somebody. He doesn't want you crossing paths into his real world.

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He told you everything


Girlfriends get to meet the family, friends, co workers even the pets. You probably have a key to his place and has his work number. 


Saturday, October 8, 2016

How To Tell Hes Cheating & Spare Yourself The Embarressment


The worse feeling ever is having someone else bring information to you about your man that you did know. By information I mean telling you your man is cheating. Its a big slap in the face. Now truth is no matter who you are, you can get cheated on. If  Halle Berry can get cheated on, we can too. But the best thing to do as a woman is always be aware of things different in your man.  A lot women have the signs right in front of their eyes but refuse to pay attention. I don't want you to take this post as all men cheat, because that is not true. But dont be so foolish to think you are so amazing and your sex is so great he would not dare cheat. Dont forget  Nicki Minaj got cheated on herself. Just do not be the girl in a 10 yr relationship who man cheated 8 of those years and had no idea.



  • If you call him and he does not pick up and sends a text right after, that is a sign, especially if it happens constantly. Why cant he answer the phone? "I'm busy". Well he could of said that on the phone as well. Pay attention to how many times he does this, and time of the day.

  • Changes password on phone and social media. If your guy was always open with his social media and phone, but suddenly he wants privacy. Ding  Ding. That is odd right? Look into that. It could mean he just wants his privacy or he just wants to keep his conversations private.

  • Rumors. Haters never want to see a happy couple. But if you start hearing rumors about your guy look into that. Sad thing is, sometimes the streets know more about your own relationship then you. Do not ignore them. Investigate for yourself.

Monday, August 1, 2016

Frank Ocean #boysdontcry Album Has Release Date


So apparently Frank Ocean has set a release date for this long long long long anticipation for this album #boysdontcry ...I'll believe it Frank when I actually have the shit in my car bumping it. I been dryed out on all those mixtapes, and channel orange. And you better deliver too. πŸ˜‚ 
Whos Ready?

Sunday, July 10, 2016

What's Causing Your Acne?



Around that time of the month acne seems to pop up. But if its a constant issue it may not be just your menstrual. Did you know that what we eat, health and daily activities can be a big cause to our acne.



Let me break down to you the formal definition of acne according to livestrong.comWhen the pores are clogged, typically with dead skin cells, the skin's natural oil is trapped within the pore and that is what builds up. Bacteria results in inflammation. If the skin is blocked at the skin's surface.



Take this chart provided by women's health
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                       1.  It's In Your Genes


Have you had acne since you were a kid. Nothing seems to work? It may just be in your genes. Pasted along to you from your grandparents or parents. This may be a bigger issue than at home remedies. Go see a dermatologist on better solutions.
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                                   2. Stress


Stress, worries can be a major factor. When you see those pimples on your chin and jaw line just consider working on your stress. Easier said than done right. Try yoga or stress relief Techniques.
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                                  3. Hot climate


For you all who live in very hot climate. See acne above your eye brows and between your eyes to your nose. This a big factor to why. According to www.womenshealth.com Hot, muggy climes (summers on the East Coast, and ll year round in the South) spur the production of oil, which is a breeding ground for acne. Dry-climate dwellers (if you live in the Southwest, air sucks out moisture, causing dry cells to flake and gunk up the pore walls, so you'll see little whiteheads. Use an oil-free moisturizer,and get a humidifier.
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                           4. Working Out


Working out is great but its what you do once you are finish. If you are a heavy sweater. Don't wipe your face with your hands or a towel. The oils in your pores is what causes the breakouts. And you are transferring bacteria to your face, and causing inflammation.  Change out of your gym clothes and shower right after a workout. Using a exploitation cleanser will help also.
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                            5.Laundry Detergent


If you know you have sensitive skin watch out for those detergents. Also try a fragrance free detergent.
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                       6. Your cell phone


Did you know that your phone carrys the most germs. Its like having a toilet to your face. Make sure you clean your phone a few times a week or daily with a alcohol wipe.The germs from your phone are probably causing the breakage on your jaw and mouth area.  If you know you run your mouth a lot cleanse after as well. 
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7. You are what you eat


Dairy, drinks with caffeine, peanuts, sugar, and soy can help her rid of acne...if you have less of it. Dark leafy greens like kale, and antioxidant green tea are sad to be good for your skin. Sugar and carbs sends acne right to your chin. Add more protein to your diet.