My 2017 Fall Fashion Favorites

I am a fall baby.  Born September 28 the fall weather is my go to season.  But sadly here in Georgia I haven't got my fall weather as of yet.  It is hotter than a under boob down here.  Ha!  No really it is 80° in October. Anyways,  let's get to the point. 

So my favorite fall favorites are velvet pieces, thigh high boots and over size sweaters. 

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High To The Thigh 

(H&M) 

These H&M boots are hot. Normally with fall weather the weather is not too cold, and not too hot.  So pairing these with some mini shorts, can really give a sexy,  Bada$$ look.
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Velvet Baby 

(Altuzarra) 

Velvet is such a throw back fabric but so sexy and sophisticated.  Pairing a top and bottom is a dope fall favorite for me as well.  Trust me with velvet, it is definitely a eye catcher,  and is very popular right now in the fashion world. The top fashion stores at your local mall I am sure has a display in the window.

(Banana Republic) 

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The over size Sweater 

(Fabshopper) 

The over size sweater look can be worn so many ways.  This is something I sm loving to sew this fall.  Pairing a over size sweater with a nice fitted pant.  If you are going out pair it with a heel,  or heading out to run errands pair it with a flat. 

Rihanna is always on top of what's hot in fashion.  Here she is pairing a over suze sweater with a heel.  

What are your fall favorites? 

What A Girl Wants

What a girl wants? That's the million dollar question for men. Its something many men can't get understand.  Men over think situations.  Trying to figure women out would be easier if men actually listened. Many women are so unhappy in relationships be cause their guy just doesn't seem to understand them. The number one thing a woman wants, is to be happy. 

Being in a unhappy relationship is miserable. Love is important but happiness is a big part of love. A girl wants to smile every time she sees her man. A girl wants to get chills every time her man touches her. Not annoyed and angry every time he comes around. If a woman is not happy, a real man should do his best to find out why and fix things. Put effort into showing her you care. If she still isn't happy ,what matters is your effort.

Society has painted this picture where a man should protect and provide for his woman. In 2017 women are bosses and doing for themselves. Don't get misunderstood. That doesn't mean she wants a man with no car. Or a man who cant keep a job. If she loses her job or become sick, she wants to feel that he will hold it down. Stability in a man should be a goal when dating. Allot of women sadly don't have this. Trust me every woman wants a man with his shit together.

Respect also means "treat me how you want to be treated". Men are really getting disrespectful. Anything that will hurt her or embarrass her is disrespectful. A woman's pride and self esteem could be destroyed because of the disrespect he caused her. When it comes to respecting a woman, talk to her with respect. Putting her feelings in consideration is key. Lastly always putting her 1st. Never have these chicks laughing at your girl.

A girl wants a man who studies her body. Pleasing your woman sexually is key in a relationship. Women just want their man to please them, and treat their bodies like its theirs.  Listen to her desires and turn ons and offs.

Nothing is sexier then a man who has life goals. Who wants a bum with no goals, no life plans or future? A woman seeing her man try to accomplish his goals or become better is inspiring. Thrive to better yourself, even if you have reached your highest potential.

Women want to hear it from her man and not someone else.  Honesty is what women crave. Nothing hurts women more then a lie. Be honest with her is all she wants. Truth hurts, but lies hurt worst. 

Its a terrible feeling to not feel wanted on needed. We want to feel like he cares. Whether its returning her calls or texts, or asking how our day was. Little things add up to show us we are important. If she's craving your time ,make a effort to give her quality time and make her feel important .

I have yet to meet a woman who enjoys being cheated on. Who wants to share their man? I would hope no one. We women just want to be the only woman in our relationship with our guy. A scenario that of him and someone else is heart breaking enough. 

Lurking !!!! When Is It Necessary?

Sometimes you find yourself on a persons page, then see someone you know and go to their page, then another and another. Yes darling, you are a lurker. Don't trip it happens to all of us, but lurking isn't such a bad thing. For a woman who is mysterious about her mans activity you may want to lurk. Now I know there are some who believe"WHATS DONE IN THE DARK WILL COME TO LIGHT" Well I believe "If you think it, believe it, and look into it"

I have been cheated on before like allot of other good women. But because of my woman's intuition and smartness I listen to my gut and look into niggas.

Quick story. 

A few months back I was talking to a guy who seemed like he was digging me. He swore he was different not like the rest. God fearing, ambitious, good independent man, I thought. I told my best friend about him she was so happy that damn I may have found a good man. But I said to her "girl something not right". I kept saying it and she thought I was tripping and letting my past mess this up. So I followed my gut. After LURKING, I came across his ex, who I found out he had another woman in their shared home and that was the reason they broke up. After a few mins of lurking each week I came across a girl who was the reason for his last break up and was actually his girlfriend now. Yasss! He sweared he was different, and wouldn't lie, and cared. Church boy act was a front. Let's just say I scared him so bad he went ghost. 

Don't be the crazy chick going through his wallet, but if you think his ass up to something. Lurk and you may find resolution to the truth. Check out these 4 signs you need to take on the role of a detective and look into your partner. There is nothing worse than those women who are married 20 yrs and find out their man was creeping for the last 10 years 💀. People leave clues like mice leave crumbs. Don't stalk the man and catch a charge, but look into it if you think something.

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