Wednesday, February 17, 2016

5 Signs You're The Girl On The Side (Sidechick)

As women I would hope we all would want to be a mans one and only. Its so hard dating these days because guys feel like its a buffet. And they can have you, you, you and you. You can be the most beautiful woman in your town, college graduate. That doesn't mean a man will change his ways for you. Being a side chick is becoming a trend for men. I don't never want to be a side chick and I'm sure you reading don't neither. Look I have been a side chick by default, once I found out the truth he got dropped.If toy been wondering something's about a guy I will help you figure out if you may be getting played. But ladies you have to ask men questions. If you don't ask, he isn't going to volunteer. Check out some signs you may be a side chick. Better to know now then later.

He is unavailable a lot after 7pm.

A man who has other women will become busy. If you always text him, and call him and always hear back from him hours or days later. That means he is around somebody he can't talk to you around. Do you call him, then he texts you? You are wondering why can't you call me? He's busy, well clearly not to busy to text.

You have never been to his home

If all he does is come over to your place, that's a issue. Dating should be a two way street. He visits you, you visits him. Also if you have asked him where he lives and he never gives you a street address or even neighborhood. Thats fishy. If he answers as in a city, or other part of towm. He clearly doesn't want you popping up at his house. So a town with a population of 100,000 is better then 123 walker st

He never spends the night

A man who has a main woman doesn't have time to spend the night. If he always makes sure he is out the door before midnight you should question him on that. Ladies think clear on this one. After being intimate, does he ask to use the shower, or use the bathroom and takes a while. Guess what, he is washing off evidence before he leaves. Also if he is at your house or with you and his phone starts ringing or texts start to come in but he ignores them. Look at your clock and see how long it takes him to say "I gotta go . That means his main girlfriend or wifey is wondering where he is. 

His Family hasn't met you

This is the key one here.  If he always talks about his kids, or his parents or grandparents on how much they mean to him. Don't you think you should meet them, or they should at least know your name? If he is talking to a family member on the phone and says he's at the store but he is really sitting by you. Ask yourself, why didn't he say he is with me.

Social Media Affection Off Limits
If he has a social media and you send him tags, or cute messages and he doesn't do the same or find yours cute that's a obvious clue. If you were his girl you would think showing you off was important. Or maybe he has a social media but doesn't accept your request . Something is on his page he doesn't want you to know about. Last let's say he claims to not have a social media. Its 2016...really granny's have social media. Search his name and see what you find. You may be surprised he is on social media.