A relationship with a significant other is probably one of the hardest jobs to do. Why? because when you are romantically involved with someone their feelings always have to be considered. You have to make sure you are fulfilling their needs, physically and emotionally and while having them do the same for you. What breaks a relationship apart,is one person in the relationship doesn't fulfill the other as much, or as much as the other partner desires. Here are 5 ways you can help the relationship.
Take it back to the beginning
Sometimes couples forget why the hell they are even together. Think of why you two wonted to be together. This is actually the foundation. If you got in a relationship with someone just because a child was created, that's the weakest foundation to start a relationship on. The child becomes older and makes friends and then you are stuck with someone you never would of been with if it wasn't for that child.Keep the relationship spicy
Some people may argue me down. But intimacy and sex is the most important key in a relationship besides love. When you two are so annoyed with each other, and sex doesn't even excite you both to make up, what other way will you two unite again? If you are with someone who doesn't excite you, or turn you on. You two need to figure out how to please each other. You have to make sure your partner is sexual satisfied. Try some new things in the bedroom. Try more romantic things instead of just jumping in the bed and jumping out. Snooze Alert!!
Get Up & Get Out
Struggling relationships are already fragile. If you and your mate are always laying up in the house watching TV, on the computer. Or always do dinner and a movie. Ask yourself. Doesn't that sound boring ? Doing the same old thing year after year is so lazy. If your relationship is struggling you two need a new scenery. Get out of town, go on vacation, or a trip. Camping in the woods, IDC. But sitting around the house is not going to fix your relationship. Get out, have fun together, talk and get to know one another again. Look online for local events, you don't need money to have a good time.Speak & Listen (Commucaton)
There's a southern quote. "A closed mouth don't get feed" If you don't talk to your partner about why you are mad, why you are unhappy, what you need from them. How the hell do you expect them to know. If you won't intimacy, say "baby I won't you to hug and kiss me more". But also be willing to ask them what do they need from you. Because the problem in relationships especially with women is its always about ME,ME,ME...But it should be about US,US,US.
Respect For The Relationship
Nothing hurts more then being with some one who shows no respect to your feelings. You two have to respect each others feelings and ways. Always put in consideration how it may make the other feel. Also work hard at the relationship like you would do a paying job. Don't half ass a relationship. Thats a big disrespect to the relationship and your partner who's trying. What happens when you half ass at your job? You lose your job right. That mentality will leave you single and alone in a relationship.