Being lead on is not a good feeling. Most men don't realize the different meanings of leading a woman on. For one sending mixed emotions. You can't do boyfriend duties and not make this woman your girlfriend and get mad when she do girlfriend things like question you. It's so many women who clearly are dealing with a man whose wasting their time. I posted this Sunday its already at over 600 likes and counting on my Instagram. Its amazing. So many women are reposting, sharing.
I knew this had to be my next blog post. More women than it should be are either having sex, living, or etc with a man who can't commit. He's saying he's not ready, or he just got out a relationship. These be the type of situations where you end up falling in love, but its unhealthy because he clearly want feel the same. Ladies I walked away after a year of dealing with somebody I fell in love with years ago, but gave me the "he wasn't ready for a relationship line". I got tired of wasting my time, and being played, lied to and disrespected. I kicked his ass to the curve and it was the best decision ever. I got 5 ways to help you figure out he's leading you on.
He Texts For Other Reasons Besides A Date
If he never has intentions on taking you on a date that's sign one. This is the number one sign he's leading you on. If he only wants to come over for some Netflix and chill with a side if something else this will go on and on until you say enough. A man that wants you to be his woman will go out his way to impress you, earn you and keep you.
He wants to act like a couple but doesn't want the title of boyfriend and girlfriend
Men like this want somebody to take care of them and are normally selfish. He probably wants to move in, he wants you to cook, clean and be faithful. But being a couple is a no go. Ladies run for the hills. You will end up 20 years later still cooking, cleaning, sexing him and having no committed relationship. Technically he's not yours. He likes it that way. Can run the streets but still have you at home.
He Goes MIA a lot
(Missing In Action)
I'm laughing while writing this ladies. I know this is a big one. You know those guys you hang out and everything is great then they disappear, no call, no text. You dont hear from them what so ever. Then weeks or days later they pop back up as if he's a Secret Agent which you have a 2% chance of being likely. He's probably got a wife and kids somewhere. Men like this are wasting your time, energy and phone number space. He will have you thinking its you, but he doesn't want a relationship if he can't contact you or communicate. Tell him #boy bye
He Always Makes It A Group thing
Whether its with friends, or with you the kids from a previous relationship, this shows he doesn't take you serious. Why have his homies around all the time. Or have his kids. If he wanted to be with you and cared about quality time he would put more effort. The only alone time you guys have shouldn't be only in the bedroom.
He Claims Titles Don't Matter
Lastly he feels giving a title will ruin what you have. Or does he say, "You Know How I feel About You, You Know What We Got". Hilarious. Ladies you have to be smart and think to yourself what is it do you guys have. Is being with a man and not having him be proud to call you his girlfriend not a goal for you? This is his way of using psychology. He feels if he gives you sex, calls you a few times its enough. Ask yourself is it?