Sunday, July 31, 2016

5 Signs You Aren't Ready For A Relationship



Some people jump in relationships when they have no business being in one.  The bad part is, they normally don't realize they shouldn't be in a relationship. I know for a fact. Here are 5 signs to help you learn that maybe being in a relationship at the moment isn't a good idea.


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You Still Have Feelings For A Ex


I mean how can you love someone if you still have feelings for someone else. You can't fully give a person your heart if someone else has it. This is the biggest sign you should not get involved with anyone else. For the most important reason is someone getting hurt. This is the most selfish thing you can do.
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You Don't Have A lot Of Free Time


We all can get busy. Maybe you have kids, or you have a career, or you are in school. Don't add a person to your life if you know you have no time for them. Wait until you have some things taken off your plate 1st. The worse thing you need is a mate complaining because they feel lonely. Save yourself and them the drama. Be single and get your life together 1st
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You Have Trust Issues


Sometimes the pain from one relationship can follow you. The hurt, betrayal. Its something you just don't want to bring into a relationship. That person should deserve a far solid chance. You knowing that you can't trust anyone at the moment is a obvious sign you shouldn't be involved with anyone. If you do get into a relationship, its going to sink. Because your trust issues are going to tear and destroy the relationship..
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You Are Desperate For Marriage and Kids


If you know that marriage and kids is all you're really wanting, you shouldn't just jump in a relationship because you want to speed up the process. A relationship takes work and pride. Maybe you're aging and you fear not being able to have kids is your future. You should not get in a relationship.

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You Don't Like To Be Alone


This is the most common issue. So many people hate being alone. They can't even ride a uber alone, go to a big event alone. You being with someone just because you hate being single is a much deeper issue. You have to learn yourself and figure out your life. What will happen, you will end up getting in a relationship with someone, and your life will revolve around them
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