Charisma "What's Good Sis? "
I understand that some men are attracted to a fat ass and that's all. So those raisin brains aka small minded men don't count in this conversation. Let me spill the tea. Truthfully girls, the reason a lot of you aren't getting any play from men is not because of your looks, but because you're just boring, dull and lack sauce.
A lot of women think they are to good to even start a conversation with a man by saying hello. It's that stuck up attitude that is driving men away.
I had a conversation with a guy I know. He opened up to me that he likes women who are funny, has personality, and spunk. He struggled dating because chicks he met were so bad on the outside, but couldn't hold a conversation like glue holds eyelashes. But he met his wife and she was just so down to earth they were inseparable. Her looks were a bonus.
Also your stand-off attitude makes men not even want to approach you. If you see a guy smile at you, a nice quick smile back won't kill you. That's just a guys way of saying hello from a distance. A lot of girls think that every guy who speaks is trying to holla.
Calm down sis.........
So working on communication skills and confidence helps with shyness. Trust me I am the girl who attracts men just from my personality. Men I have dated have always said how great my personality is. I am just always myself. Whether they think I'm weird, talkative, you can't knock realness. Also dating, and talking to men is the only way to help that. Bad attitude will keep your ass lonely sis. So simmer down, humble yourself and let your guard down.