Take Poll 1st
Would You Be A Sugar Baby For A Sugar Daddy?
When I say sugar daddy I don't mean the candy sis I mean that old man who's probably old enough to be your dad. If you're really messy, he may be old enough to be your granddad. A sugar daddy is pretty much a older man who lavishes someone younger with gifts, and money only if she does something strange for a little piece of change. Not all the time but majority.
I an not a sugar baby. Personally Ive had a few old men try to recruit me. If we really gone keep it real, I have thought about it especially during my college days. I even made a account on one of those websites, one in particular SeekingArrangement.com
I SURE DID GURLLL. When I got a message from one of my teachers from middle school trying to recruit me, I knew it was time to deactivate.
What I realized for me personally I am not fake enough to act interested in a sugardaddy. Plus most sugar daddies love submissive women. If you're opinionated, bossy, and demanding he can't tolalerate you. He doesn't want a baby who's gone talk back. Most sugar babies don't find their sugar daddies attractive, they find his pockets more attractive. A lot of them play along to get what they need from him. They don't love your old ass.
Truthfully I don't look down on girls who have sugar daddies. I'm open and understand why they choose to do so. Even if I personally would not. In my eyes I look at it as desperate times call for desperate measures. She must really be going through a hard time to tolerate it.
Most studies show that college women between ages 18-25 are normally the sugar baby age group. Think about it? You're in college, on your own trying to pay for books, and tuition. From experience college is hard and a lot of life responsibilities come with it. Chipotle cashier or sugar baby? Some sugar daddies just want the attention and company of a young woman. Then the other majority wants pleasure. The girls look at it as easy money and gifts. All they have to do is please him. Sometimes it's also a low self esteem thing. Feeling as if they are not good enough and wanted, but this older man comes along to give them better. Let's not act as if the men don't do it for their own insecure reasons. Using money, and gifts to bribe beautiful young women into being with you.
Most chicks I know who have sugar daddies never fully admit to being sexual active with him. They always say he's just nice like that. In my mind I'm thinking....
Not many men no matter how old and desperate they are will spend money and buy gifts and lavish vacations and get nothing out the deal. It's like a business deal. You do for me, I do for you. Men have been doing it for years, and women are now doing it to men. Telling people you have a sugar daddy is also embarrassing. That's something I feel you need to keep to yourself. Just make sure someone knows who he is just in case he's a insane person and your life is in danger. Truthfully most sugar daddies have a wife and kids hidden off somewhere in the suburbs, so sis your secret is good with him. But I have heard of these situations turning out bad.
I watched this documentary on the life of sugar babies and dealing with sugar daddies before writing this. .
In 2014 there was a kick-start program for a documentary called Daddies Who Date Babies. (sounds creepy right). But it must have never been created. I came across a tumbler page for it of people telling their stories and how dangerous it can also be.
I quote one story from a commenter.
Just remember to be careful. Your life is your choice. I don't condone being someones sugar baby but I don't judge people on it. I want all us girls to work hard, be independent. Reality is real life happens and some have to survive. Please be careful. Remember that leading men on can be dangerous. If they are buying you gifts, taking you on dates ask yourself what will they want from you? Be smart, be safe .