Step Your Cookies Up!!!

I know this post is misleading. "Step your cookies up before they crumble, was a line from Nicki Minaj Mix tape. I know some tolerate situations out of love. But you cannot allow a man to get by, get by and get by. If he needs to step his sh*t up, tell him. Keep reading.......

Allot of men need to be told "step your shit up".  There is nothing wrong ladies with telling your man to step it up and be a man, and do better. If he is someone you love and see a future with he needs to get it together. If he doesn't, you have to see the worth in yourself and let him go.

There are men who want to still party every weekend, or don't want to work, or be a better man for you. Do you really want to have to tell him daily he needs to get it together? How annoying is that? We as women can only support and love a man so much before we crumble trying to save his ass. I always say it is a parents job to build confidence and self love within a child. Because you may end up with a grown ass man who needs to be taken care of.

Support your man, but don't let your life crumble trying to save his life. 💯

#OOTD

Make Up Sex ? Or I Miss You Sex?

Arguments happen in relationships. It is totally normal for you and your significant other to have fights. The subject of make up sex or I miss you sex was a topic between co workers and I today. It was very interesting hearing others opinions on this topic. Before I jump into this topic take my quiz now below. Then keep reading.

Make Up Sex Or I Miss You Sex?

Make up sex, having a big blow up then making up with sex is the best I can't decide! Sex is just amazing period.

Yasss, I miss you sex. The feeling of anticipation of seeing them. Other Please Specify:

Poll Maker

Make up sex is so passionate. After breaking up, and reuniting its a way to take out your sexual frustrations on each other. Whether its a big argument you and your man had or even break up, sometimes makeup sex can squash the beef. Have you ever been so mad at your man, then you two have rough passionate sex and all of a sudden you aren't mad anymore? You two just made up. But don't depend on makeup sex to fix problems in your relationship. Make sure you later talk about what and why both of you were upset anyways. I noticed in a previous relationship the makeup sex distracted me on major things that needed to be addressed. So enjoy it, do your thing girl but don't let it distract you.

I miss you sex is my favorite. I miss you sex is very emotional, and meaningful. You may have broken up, and months or years went by and you have always missed the other person. I look at I miss you sex as a way of showing your man how you truly feel. It feels like a spark all over your body because you had been waiting for them and yearning their touch. I miss you sex could also be a eye opener of what you thought you missed, but realize you really don't.

Either way always make sure you use protection when having sexual intercourse. Sex is a amazing experience to share with your partner, but always practice safe sex. Hope you enjoy my poll. Share with friends.

Cleveland police update on search for suspect in Facebook murder

Steve Stephens, broadcast the killing on Facebook Live and has claimed to have committed multiple other homicides which are yet to be verified.The suspect is in this case is Steve Stephens:

• He is described as a black man

• 6 foot 1, 244 pounds

• Bald with a full beard

• Wearing a dark blue and grey or black striped polo shirt

• White or cream colored SUV

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Everyone please be careful if you live in this area. (Cleveland Ohio) This man has not been caught yet. They are advising everyone to please get home and stay inside until further notice. I don't even want to post this scum bag but I want everyone to see his face if you havent and be aware. God protect the ones who are already affected.

For update visit. I will be add updates here as well throught the night. 

http://m.cleveland19.com/19actionnews/index.htm

Update: 04-17-17 10:49 a.m. 

Police say Stephens, who is considered armed and dangerous, may have left the state and are urging Pennsylvania, New York, Indiana and Michigan residents to be on the lookout. Anyone with information should call 911.

Update 04-18-17 

Stephen ended his own life inside his SUV

Jam Of The Week-Kendrick Lamar Album DAMN

Um @kendricklamar babe. I need answers on why you slayed this album like this. Especially the song XXX 🔥😓
Kendrick dropped his latest album titled #DAMN and I can sew why.  If you bought album yet do you think 🔥 or ❌
www.kaylagotthe411.com

R.I.P Charlie Murphy 🙏🙏🙏🙏(PRESSPLAY)

Comedian Charlie Murphy passed away  from leukemia Wednesday morning. He had been under going chemotherapy for a while. Charlie was known for his skits on "Chappelle's Show". He had just wrapped a tour with Cedric the Entertainer-Eddie Griffin-George Lopez- & DL Hughley. He will be missed.🙁

Fu*k Fake Friends. Where Are Your Real Friends?

Unless you are in high school there is no need to be figuring out fake friends. Real friends have your best interest at heart. Fake friends don't give a damn what you do, where you go, or about you as a person. bet when its time to turn up and hit the streets they are there, right?

Real friends are a reflection of you. If you want to be someone in life, have goals, and accomplish them, your friends should be motivation or understand those things. Real friends will pick up the phone for you at 2 a.m if you had a fight with your boyfriend. Real friends care. A down ass friend wants to see you succeed in life and wants to see both of you succeed together. As a good friend, by seeing blessings for them, it brings joy to you. Keep positive people in your life. If you hang with negativity you too will be just like them, NOTHING.

Fake friends have different meanings but not that damn different. Cake is Cake, Fake is Fake, you get it?  Fake friends don't care about their friends goals, dreams, heartache, or struggles. Fake friends use you for what they need you for. You may have tried to tell a friend about somethings you are working on career wise, and they totally show no interest. Think about it? If they don't got shit going on in their life, you really think they care about yours?

Fake friends don't ask how you've been, or if you need anything. Friends look out for one another, if they don't have your back, watch your back.

As adults the fake friends start to expose themselves. But for teens and college students this is the beginning. A lot of people you thought you would be bff may change. But look at it as spring cleaning. Everything you don't need anymore, or clutters your life, Trash It!!!!!

Not The Right Time

You know that saying, "If its meant to be, it will be". Its 100% true. If you love someone, and they love you it will come together. If it doesn't it just means they weren't the one. If people love you they will fight for you. The main thing women ask for is their man to fight for them. Prove you love her, and want her. Chasing and fighting for someones heart is two different things.

Breakups can be easy, or hard. If its easy, that shows you they were not that special to you anyways. But if months, and years go by and no matter and you still wonder how they are doing, or are okay that tells you allot. But one thing I can say ladies. A mans role is to lead, protect, provide. The most you can do is tell him how you feel. The rest is up to him. If its worth it, it will be. If it isn't wait for love again. A love that sticks like super glue, and doesn't come apart. ❤

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Rapper T.I & Tiny & Alledged Sidechick

⏯ PRESS PLAY 😳

I swear. This T.I & Tiny @majorgirl & "allegedly"  side chick @realberniceburgos shit is a mess. She done posted this snap 23 hrs ago taunting Tiny, Rapper T.I wife. ☣☣☣☣Public service annoucement. If you gone be a sidechick. Have some (SIDECHICK ETIQUETTE) 😂😂 Be polite about it

This woman Bernice is a model. She is very beautiful. It is believed she is rapper T.I sidechick. She has denied it but Tiny has pretty much confirmed it by telling her ass off. I mean. Why wont they both stop dealing with him. Wouldnt that be smart.

Spring Fever 🌼

Spring Fever 🌼

Floral Is My Fav

Skirt:Canchic

Top:Choies

Shoes:Betsey Johnson

Spring is my favorite fashion season. I love floral for some reason. Floral pattern pieces are a fashion statement in itself. Floral will never go out of style. 

Janet Jackson 3rd Divorce Over?

I ❤ Janet....but some are calling her Janet The Scammer. Done got her baby from this man and said Bye 😂. Janet has always expressed love for kids. Being 50 just having supposedly her 1st child I'm sure was a blessing. But 3 months after the birth of her Son, rumor of divorce from husband. 

Now Janet announced her pregnancy to @people a few months back and had the baby in Jan/17. She married Qatari Wissam Al Mana a multi-millionaire in 2012. One of their fake friends told @dailymail "Sadly, Janet and Wissam have decided that it wasn’t working and to go their separate ways". 🤔 Either Janet just wanted her a baby or their religion, and family views got in the way, he is Islam. Lets see what her rep says 1st. He worth 800 mil. She picked the right baby daddy.

It has been rumors she has converted to Islam because of being seen wearing a head scarf. This is just a rumor but daily mail are known to have facts true. 

Janet has been married 2x before. She married James DeBarge in 1984 but that didn't last and theres been rumors about a secret baby. Then she married a back up singer name Rene Elizondo. They say threes the lucky number. I hope this is true. I always hope for love for Janet, Halle, JLO and Mariah. They just always have bad luck in love.

Im Just Saying You Can Do Better

Do you ever look back on past relationships and think, "Damn I could of did better"? You just know you deserve so much more and better. I can not count how many women go through this when dealing with a guy she no longer wants

Sometimes we stay because we don't know exactly how and what to say. You can't just say " I can do better than you." Or maybe you can.

Its your heart, you have to look out for yourself. Truth is, no one will have your best interest more than yourself.

Oh so you aren't happy? Leave that relationship. Nothing irks me more than a motherfucker staying in a relationship they are not happy in. Release yourself. Yes they may be mad, but oh well as long as you are happy.

Your partners sex isn't great? Leave. If you are going to spend your entire life with a person, make sure their sex is A1.

No goals, no ambition. If you feel like they are not doing anything with their life you have to move on to better. Be with a person you can grow with. Not a person who takes you backwards. You are suppose to grow. Don't let no more hold you back. Its okay to think you can do better. You know what you want, so go for it.