Birthday Behavior

Woke up blessed and one year older.  Today is my 26th birthday.  I spent my day at work but I plan on turning up this weekend. My mom asked me "how does it feel to be 1 year older?" For some reason that was such a hard question. I feel more of a ambition to accomplish my goals.  My goals are turning this blog site into a household brand.  I am currently working on starting my podcast soon.  One fun fact about me is I am very indecisive. So I am currently at the point of my voice overs,  and audio. It will be fresh, raw, and realness. So stay tuned.

Any ways.  I am blessed to be able to do what I love and that's be right here sharing great articles. I am blessed to be a mom.  I have a 4 year old daughter who I try to keep away from Kayla Got The 411 stuff.  But she is what gives me motivation when I feel down or discouraged.

With birthdays I like to reflect on where I am,  where I want to be,  and how I will get there.  It's a way for me to see my improvement and see my weakness. 


One thing I can proudly say is I know who I am as a woman.  It takes experiences and life lessons for you to understand who you are as a woman. 

That means understanding your body,  your emotions, strengths, flaws and over all what makes you who you are.  A lot of girls think they know themselves, but you don't know who you are until you can stand in the mirror naked and be proud of that woman you see. 

Wendy Williams: Husband Caught Creeping & Shacking Up

So He Creeps? Oh boy,  the daily mail dropped a 💣for real today.  Looks like someone has been following talk show host Wendy Williams husband Kevin Hunter for over a year now.  The tea they gathered is so hot my fingers are scorching as I type this.

Talk show host Wendy Williams is a radio legend now TV host.  With 9 seasons on air that is epic for a black woman. But girl..... As much crap she talk daily on her show about other celebrities,  she should have knew that her husband was shacking up nine miles from her family home with another woman who's much younger.

This is something we women do alot.  We judge women,  and put down others relationships to the point we are clueless on what the hell is going on in our home. I don't care who you are,  or what you do. If Beyonce allegedly got cheated on,  all our asses can too.  You can't worry about someone elses lawn when yours is 4 ft high.

Photo credit (Daily Mail)

Kevin Hunter also Wendy's manager allegedly has a home worth 750,000 with this 32 yr old massage therapist Sharina Hudson. He got her almost a 1 million dollar home, with money he made from Wendy Williams brand.  He even has his damn name on the mail box. They have being eating out at restaurants and going to the gym.  They supposedly have been together more than10 yrs now a source told daily mail. 

Now I hope Wendy is not that dumb she couldn't have realized her husband was living with another woman and still coming home to her and her kids.  I mean why have a hot topics team if they can't get the scoop on you too.  This is a big epic embarrassment for the talk show host. She was just giving Kevin Harts wife Eniko advice through the TV screen about cheating husbands.  Also you all her husband was seen with the alleged mistress right after her public vacation with husband Kevin to 🇧🇧 2 weeks ago. 

Photo Credit ( Daily Mail)

Let's see if Wendy mentions this.  Now this is not the first rumor of him cheating,  Mrs. Wendy has admitted of infidelity in the pass from Kevin and says she doesn't regret forgiving him because it made the marriage stronger. Wendy has publically showed her despise of sidechicks. 

Hey Wendy!!  Girl what you gone do?

What can she do?

Read full article here to see timeline of pictures 

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4899912/Wendy-Williams-husband-leads-double-life-mistress.html

ThrowBackThursday:Damn Kayla!

I never knew how creative I was at writing until others acknowledged it.  I won two poem contests in middle school.  With one,  I won 3rd place and my poem was displayed in their publishing book.  I went to college for design,  while there a English teacher told me she thought I was a amazing.

I remember I wrote lots of poems about how I was feeling. Lovely Face book reminded me of one titled "I'm Ready . "

I don't even remember this but I read it as if I never heard it and I myself am amazed. Now my English grammar is so ridiculous. Remember in 2009-2010 people thought it was cool to purposely misspell words.  Not cool at all.  Check it out.

Kayla Got The 411: #GirlPower

Story Time:

I was at work and this lady was 15 minutes late for a interview. I come in from break and she's by my desk.  I said " hey have you been helped?" She let me know she was here for a interview in accounting. She said "they're doing work on Interstate 285 so traffic was hell,  coming from Stone Mountain".

So I called over and the person who interviewed her has a, reputation of being a "strict" 

She said "Did that lady just get here?"

I paused and just instantly lied.

 "It looks like she's been waiting in the lobby, I came in and saw her just sitting. I just came back from break no one has helped her,  but I will send her over".

The girl said "OMG thank you".  I said it's ok good luck on your interview.

30 minutes later she came and found me and hugged me.  She said, "girl thank you for having my back. I got the job,  I start Monday".  I told her we black women gotta look out for one another. Just women in generally.  I'm happy you got it.  She was so happy. She said sadly most women especially black women don't stick up or help one another as much.  I told her no problem I have been there and I understand.  She said lunch on me lol.

It truly warmed my heart.  I didn't do it for a reward.  I know when you travel for a interview anything can happen to cause you to be late. Things happen.  Seeing her happy made me happy.  I truly believe if I told her interviewer she was late and just arrived it would of ruined her chances.

So girls let's look out for one another.  One compliment or kind gesture can do alot for another woman.  Girl power. 

Kevin Hart : Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater?

Social media is going in on comedian Kevin Hart,  and I'm joining in.  Let me just say Kevin Hart "Good Guy" act has always been suspect to me.  Yes he is talented but putting your wrong doings in your comedy doesn't take away from what you did.  Now if you stumbled across my page on Google,  or link then refresh yourself on a very recent fave post titled Who's Man where I talk about how Kevin Hart cheated on his ex wife with his current wife Eniko "Allegedly. "

Anyways, so Kevin posted this bizarre video of a part 3 to Usher Confessions where he's apologizing for some shit we have no idea about. But he's basically saying it's for his wife and kids, and goes on how he needs to do better.  He also says he will not be giving his money to anyone seeking financial gain.  Take a look at the video and lets keep chatting.

So social media has kind of read between the lines of "HE CHEATED,  SIDE CHICK IS ASKING FOR A CHECK,  HE IS SAVING HIS ASS BY EXPOSING HIMSELF".

So of course his die hard fans who are in denial along with his 2nd wife Eniko ( Catch The Shade) feels no one should assume it's infidelity. Well when you post a apology video not acknowledging what the hell you're apologizing for,  we can assume whatever.

Now this is a question that came to mind.  If you cheat once,  are you always a cheater?
Let me tell you from experience.  I spent 4 years of my teen years with a excessive cheater. He constantly was getting caught up with chicks until he eventually cheated so much I kept forgiving him and just said No More.  People who cheat know what they are doing.  The goal is to not hurt anymore people after you get caught once.  But in my opinion most cheaters are always a cheater.. It's like robbing a bank and getting away with it.  The adrenaline rush of getting away with it is a thrill. Very similar to cheating.  When they cheat and don't get caught no different. If it worked once why not try it again.

However, if their partner will forgive them, why not try it again? That's how many cheaters think. There's also this new thing where people think let me expose it to my partner because it will sound better coming from me.  Soooo,  being honest about your infidelity is a better idea than lying about it.  See how stupid and smart that sounds.

Let's see how this plays out.  Let's wait on the anonymous person to come forward soon.  I'm sure they mad that Kevin took it upon himself to half ass expose himself.

1:59 p.m just saw TMZ got word that someone is exhorting Kevin Hart with some kind of allegedly mini sex tape. This is so bad. I really want to say Karma is a bitch to his new wife Eniko but I choose the door of not petty because she's with child.

TMZ came with it ⬇

http://m.tmz.com/2017/09/17/kevin-hart-sex-tape-video-extortion-woman-cheating/

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(UPDATE 9-14-17) What Happen To 19 year old Kenneka Jenkins Martin ?

Update: September 14, 2017I want to apologize to the young ladies who were with her and guys.  Looks like surveillance video has been seen and shows Kenneka, Jenkins walked into the freezer on her own will.

Chicago activist Andrew Holmes said that surveillance video from a Rosemont hotel shows Kenneka Jenkins entering a walk-in freezer alone. 

  The mother did ask the hotel staff to please look for her daughter when she showed up Sept 10 at 4:00 a.m.  Kenneka body was not found until 24 hours later. After a media frenzy of what we all thought was true,  so far seems to be showing that the people in the video weren't %100 responsible. 

He said the video showed her in the lobby of the Crowne Plaza Hotel after her friends apparently went up to the room in which they had been partying to retrieve some possessions. Jenkins then takes the elevator to a lower level and wanders around, opening doors in an apparently disoriented manner. She then pens two doors in a kitchen area and walked in the freezer. Doors closing behind her.

Now the authospy report has not came back. But now we do know she wasn't forced into the freezer.  I just hope we get to what and why so the family can have some peace. 

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First off I would like to say R. I. P to this beautiful young girl.  Her story is tragic it's recent but it's my duty to use my platform to spread her story and hopefully get people aware.


19-year-old Kenneka Jenkins was found dead inside a walk-in freezer at a Crowne Plaza hotel, on Sunday Sept 10. It was brought to her families attention that she went missing from a hotel party. It is allegedly believed she was set up by friends.  No confessions so far but social media rumors have started.  After I explain what I read and video evidence of her "fake friends" and strange men on Facebook live you will see the conspiracy where this was no accident.

(Please watch this video a few times before continuing her story.  Then after come back watch it again and think about this entire scenario) 

Police are telling her mother that she supposedly let herself inside the freezer 🤔. Now she was attending a hotel party with friends but her so called friends supposedly lost track of her at the hotel on the 9th floor.  She was found dead in a walk in freezer. Oh and the friends even had Kennekas cellphone and keys and posession of her car. Kenneka told her family she was going out with friends.

So she went missing, and left her phone, keys, and car? Strange!🤔

 Keep reading. They later called her mother at 4:00 a.m. Saturday to claim they lost track of her so her mother rushed to the hotel to look for her daughter.  She gets there the hotel staff says they need a missing persons report before they can search the premises. That's understandable but for a mother you don't care about that. Hours go by and Kenneka family are at the hotel banging on doors of guests in panic needing answers on what happen to Kenneka. The hotel staff later called authorities because the family demanded answers which they had every right to.

Her family and myself are questioning the friends story. Apparently they can't get their story straight.

The hotel staff says the freezer had no food in it but was turned on cold.  No guest should of been near it because due to construction the hotel was having the area was closed, but these so call friends claim she left her keys and phone and disappeared in the hall way.  Her family had no idea about a hotel party also.

The friends were on Facebook live where you saw them in the hotel room,  music loud with strange men.  No Kenneka in sight.  In the video you can hear someone say at 2:03 minutes "they in there raping her". The girl with the glasses says "told y'all." Now forward to around 3:00-3:08  minutes you can hear someone say "Help Me."

It is believed that the guy raped her and Kenneka was trying to call for help, but when you are with fake,  jealous friends the poor girl had no chance. They weren't going to help her but contribute to harm her.  Before the music got louder you can hear a cry out.

I noticed along with others a reflection in the girls glasses. I see one man in a red shirt,  and there seems to be another man in the room.

I will keep adding more info to this post.  Share, repost tell everyone.  Chicago police need to solve this case quickly.  Send this video to everyone so we can help get justice for Kenneka.  We got you baby girl.

Pretty Hurts?

Being pretty is a privilege and curse. Being pretty means to most men she's a catch. They see you and think, "shes the one." What can we offer men besides being pretty?  Can you cook?  Can you keep your house clean?  What type of goals do you see for yourself in the next 5 years?  Do you have higher education?  What's your skill? What do you do for your community? See if you can't answer those type of questions, you need to work on you. Being pretty will get him,  but will it keep him?

Pretty face,  big boobs,  thick thighs is what men want?  But I can almost bet allot of these men would go crazy if we all were just pretty and that was it. She couldn't cook a pack of noodles.  Her house was filthy,  only if she has a crib.  Sex so good, goes for hours and hours, but she doesn't work only lays on her a$$. Sounds like a one in a million.

                          Sarcasm..... 

You don't want to be a pretty girl with nothing going for herself.  Be the pretty girl with brains.  The pretty girl with ambition,  the pretty girl with hustle,  the pretty girl who's a boss.  Being pretty doesn't have to hurt.  Being pretty should just be a bonus to other awesome things you bring to the table.


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