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Thursday, October 26, 2017

Kayla Got The 411 Podcast-Episode 1: Sidechick Predicament

If you believe in yourself you can do anything. This southern girl has taken the blog on air.  It's been 2 years since I started this website.  Why not build a brand.  Blogs,  podcast, books.

With myself getting sick twice in one month losing my voice.  With me breaking my new mic.  Also struggling editing this podcast.  The first episode stressed me out.  I do admit I am a control freak over my own material.


The first episode this week is What's the 411? Film Producer Harvey Weinstein alleged sexual assault victims come forward. Girl talk discussion this week... how to avoid getting yourself into a "Sidechick Predicament."
You can listen so far on SoundCloud, YouTube, and spreaker.
Hopefully by tomorrow you can listen on itunes and Google play.

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Friday, October 13, 2017

My 2017 Fall Fashion Favorites

I am a fall baby.  Born September 28 the fall weather is my go to season.  But sadly here in Georgia I haven't got my fall weather as of yet.  It is hotter than a under boob down here.  Ha!  No really it is 80° in October. Anyways,  let's get to the point. 

So my favorite fall favorites are velvet pieces, thigh high boots and over size sweaters. 
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High To The Thigh 

(H&M) 


These H&M boots are hot. Normally with fall weather the weather is not too cold, and not too hot.  So pairing these with some mini shorts, can really give a sexy,  Bada$$ look.
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Velvet Baby 

(Altuzarra) 


Velvet is such a throw back fabric but so sexy and sophisticated.  Pairing a top and bottom is a dope fall favorite for me as well.  Trust me with velvet, it is definitely a eye catcher,  and is very popular right now in the fashion world. The top fashion stores at your local mall I am sure has a display in the window.

(Banana Republic) 

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The over size Sweater 

(Fabshopper) 
The over size sweater look can be worn so many ways.  This is something I sm loving to sew this fall.  Pairing a over size sweater with a nice fitted pant.  If you are going out pair it with a heel,  or heading out to run errands pair it with a flat. 


Rihanna is always on top of what's hot in fashion.  Here she is pairing a over suze sweater with a heel.  

What are your fall favorites? 

Saturday, October 7, 2017

Charisma "What's Good Sis? "

There are some of us who have a personality that just attracts people. I always say being real is what makes a person authentic and unique. When you just let your hair down and be yourself that will attract so many opportunities and of course "MEN".

I understand that some men are attracted to a fat ass and that's all.  So those raisin brains aka small minded men don't count in this conversation.  Let me spill the tea. Truthfully girls,  the reason a lot of you aren't getting any play from men is not because of your looks,  but because you're just boring,  dull and lack sauce.


A lot of women think they are to good to even start a conversation with a man by saying hello.  It's that stuck up attitude that is driving men away.
I had a conversation with a guy I know. He opened up to me that he likes women who are funny, has personality, and spunk.  He struggled dating because chicks he met were so bad on the outside, but couldn't hold a conversation like glue holds eyelashes. But he met his wife and she was just so down to earth they were inseparable.  Her looks were a bonus.

Having charisma is a gift in itself. Being able to charm, influence, and attract people is just something you got,  or you don't. It's not something you buy on ebay. Confidence plays a big part in it. Knowing who you are, and actually liking those things about yourself makes you secure in your self. How you walk, talk, and interact with men will will play a big part in that.

Also your stand-off attitude makes men not even want to approach you.  If you see a guy smile at you, a nice quick smile back won't kill you.  That's just a guys way of saying hello from a distance. A lot of girls think that every guy who speaks is trying to holla.

Calm down sis.........

So working on communication skills and confidence helps with shyness.  Trust me I am the girl who attracts men just from my personality. Men I have dated have always said how great my personality is.  I am just always myself. Whether they think I'm weird, talkative, you can't knock realness. Also dating, and talking to men is the only way to help that.  Bad attitude will keep your ass lonely sis.  So simmer down,  humble yourself and let your guard down.