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Monday, March 27, 2017

101 Love- Loving Who You Are


How can you truly love someone if you don't love yourself. Love & Happiness all begins within. You have to truly love the person you see in the mirror everyday. Life can be hard and confusing for people who don't know who the hell they are. 

There are allot of people who put down others on a daily because they aren't happy with who they are. The main people yelling "I'M THE SHIT" are the main ones unhappy in life and lost. You can't be the shit if you are constantly change yourself to get approval from others.

In relationships we women want a man to love us with all their heart. But how can you expect, or want love if you don't love yourself. If you don't love yourself how can you be mad at him for not loving a person who don't even love themselves. Real recognize real. Love recognize love as well. 

Get to know yourself, learn what you are good at. Figure out your favorite face feature.  Those little things matter and helps to build confidence. You can not wait for somebody to tell you how beautiful you are. Tell yourself everyday how damn sexy you are. Once you learn to love yourself you will learn to know your worth and what you deserve in life.



Friday, March 24, 2017

Kendrick Lamar- The Heart Part 4


Damn Kendrick Lamar 👀 This was dope. He switched beats, flows. I never been a hardcore fan. But I give credit where its needed. My question is I wonder who he talking about🤔.
 You think 🔥 or ❌. Listen to full song below.



Wednesday, March 15, 2017

What A Girl Wants




What a girl wants? That's like a million dollar question for men. One they can't get right. Men over think themselves trying to figure us out. I will point out some of the major things we women want from our man. It really is bothering me how unhappy allot of women are. Men have to realize the number one thing a woman wants is to be Happy. 

Being in a relationship you aren't happy in is miserable. Love is important but happiness is a big part of love. A girl wants to smile every time she sees her man. A girl wants to get chills every time her man touches her, and not get annoyed and angry every time he comes around. If a woman is not happy a real man should do his best to find out why and fix things. If he does all he can and she still isn't happy at least he can say he gave it his all.
Society has painted the picture where a man should protect and provide for his woman. In 2017 women are bosses and doing for themselves. But that doesn't mean she wants a man with no car who she has to drive around. Or a man who cant keep a job. If she loses her job or become sick a woman wants to feel like her man will have her back. Stability in a man should be a goal when dating men. Allot of women sadly don't have this. Trust me every woman wants a man with his shit together.

Respect goes back to "treat me how you want to be treated". Men are really getting disrespectful. Anything that will hurt her or embarrass her is disrespectful. A woman's pride and self esteem could be torn ed down by the disrespect of a man. When it comes to respecting a woman that means talking to her like a lady. Putting her feelings in consideration. Lastly always putting her 1st. Never have another chick laughing at your girl because you in the streets as if you're single.

A girl wants a man who studies her body. Pleasing your woman sexually is key in a relationship. Women just want their man to please them, and treat their bodies like its theirs. 

Nothing is sexier than a man who has life goals. Who wants a bum ass guy with no goals, no life plans or future. A woman seeing her man try to accomplish his goals or become better is inspiring.

Women want to hear it from her man and not someone else.  Honesty is what women crave. Nothing hurts women more than a lie. Be honest with her is all we want. Truth hurts, hut lies hurt worse.

Us girls never want to feel like he gives 0 fucks about us. Want to feel important to our man. We want to feel like he cares. Whether its returning her calls or texts, asking how our day was. Little things add up to show us we are important.


I don't know not one woman who enjoys being cheated on. Who wants to share their man? I would hope no one. We women just want to be the only woman in our relationship with our guy. Keeping their 🍆 in their pants shouldn't be a difficult wish.













Monday, March 13, 2017

Slaying In Green (St Patricks Day Edition)

St Patricks Day Is Friday☘

Check Out Some Memorable Fashion Moments Where These Ladies Slayyyyed In Green 





Saturday, March 11, 2017

Lurking !!!! When Is It Necessary?


Sometimes you find yourself on a persons page, then see someone you know and go to their page, then another and another. Yes darling, you are a lurker. Don't trip it happens to all of us, but lurking isn't such a bad thing. For a woman who is mysterious about her mans activity you may want to lurk. Now I know there are some who believe"WHATS DONE IN THE DARK WILL COME TO LIGHT" Well I believe "If you think it, believe it, and look into it"

I have been cheated on before like allot of other good women. But because of my woman's intuition and smartness I listen to my gut and look into niggas.

Quick story. 

A few months back I was talking to a guy who seemed like he was digging me. He swore he was different not like the rest. God fearing, ambitious, good independent man, I thought. I told my best friend about him she was so happy that damn I may have found a good man. But I said to her "girl something not right". I kept saying it and she thought I was tripping and letting my past mess this up. So I followed my gut. After LURKING, I came across his ex, who I found out he had another woman in their shared home and that was the reason they broke up. After a few mins of lurking each week I came across a girl who was the reason for his last break up and was actually his girlfriend now. Yasss! He sweared he was different, and wouldn't lie, and cared. Church boy act was a front. Let's just say I scared him so bad he went ghost. 

Don't be the crazy chick going through his wallet, but if you think his ass up to something. Lurk and you may find resolution to the truth. Check out these 4 signs you need to take on the role of a detective and look into your partner. There is nothing worse than those women who are married 20 yrs and find out their man was creeping for the last 10 years 💀. People leave clues like mice leave crumbs. Don't stalk the man and catch a charge, but look into it if you think something.











Tuesday, March 7, 2017

Kiss & Tell "What We Are Telling Our Friends"



When it comes to men a women we tell secrets in different ways. Men normally tell a woman's business to brag on themselves. With women we normally tell a guys business as humor to our friends. Lets face it, men.and women Kiss and Tell. Let me break it down for you.

  1. Locker room gossip. When men gossip about you ladies in the gym locker room its to make him seem like the cool guy. This says allot about him. The only way he feels to fit in is by telling sex stories about you. Fuck boy activity.
  2. Men who really care about you will brag about you. By accident they may reveal personal things about you. For example you and your guy sex life may be great, and he may mention the great sex to his homies not thinking its your business too. Now every time his homies come around guess what they are thinking lol.
  3. Men are big on gossip about a woman's bad hygiene. If a man encounters bad breath, or smell vagina, trust he is spilling the beans. 
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  1. With us women we find daily humor in group chat gossip. If you send a penis picture to a woman, I can almost bet it will end up in a group chat. 9x out of 10 its because she thinks your penis is small. Think about it, why would you want to share a big one with your friends, its yours. 😂
  2. If a woman is in a big fight over text, trust she is forwarding the conversation to her friends. Relationships are suppose to be private right? Not when shes fighting with you. 
  3. Bad dates are a big kiss and tell. If you don't pay, or show up late all of your business will be in the streets. With women news travels fast. 
Is it right to do...yeah maybe not. But its what both sexes do. Now you have a better idea of what your guy or girl may be telling.