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Monday, December 19, 2016

Camila Cabello Walks Away From Fifth Harmony Leaving Only 4

Well another one bites the dust. The group fifth harmony just announced Camila the lead has left the group. She's being doing her solo thing a while now. The new single Bad Things with Machine Gun Kelly is a smash me and my daughter love it. 


After Zayn left one direction the group continued and Zayn went to have success. My only concern is how she did it. Zayn left in a sneaky way nobody knew he was working on solo stuff. Camila just shot a video for her single and performed. So it's been clear. This group wont last after the 3rd album. I can see it.

These girls have been having been beefing since the summer. At the Canada's Much Awards these girls were salty Camila won with her single she had with Shawn Mendes allegedly. Laurens mom went off on Twitter when Camila manager alluded that she won 4 awards that night. Lauren mom had to set it straight 2 of those were fifth Harmony's boo boo. The tweet was later deleted.

Normani was forced to speak out after rumor spread she was being mean and shady when she couldn't think of anything nice to say about former band mate Camila during Facebook live. Damnnn. She had lots of nice things to say about the others though.

Well the group let this statement last night. I wonder how they will do after their lead leaves. I predict Normani is excited she will probably be the lead now.  Oh and they have unfollowed her. 😩 






Thursday, December 15, 2016

2016 Fashion Trends That Are A Must For 2017

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2016 is coming to a end in a few weeks. Whether you had a good year, or a bad one. We all can agree this year was all about trends, and being bold with fashion and beauty.
I picked out some of my favorite trends I saw a lot of this year. 

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Faux locs

Oh my beautiful sistas slayed 2015 with poetic justice braids. 2016 was big on faux locs. So many beauty salons raised the prices because it was a high demand this year. They are braids that are wrapped into your hair to create length. They differ from dreadlocks which make use of your own hair which is matted to form a dread or lock.
Even celebrities like Meagan good, Rihanna & Tyra banks even gave them a try. This is a trend I'm loving and interested in trying myself going into the new year



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Chokers


The 90s are most definitely a popular trend to steal from. Chokers are a trend that became very popular this year. Chokers look best with a off shoulder top fashion experts say. A simple black choker necklace can change the entire vibe of your outfit. They come in different shades, width, and designs. Its a trend that may stick around a little longer. Mainly because they are so inexpensive.



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Furs & Faux Furs

Whether you are a animal lover or not. Furs and faux furs are for both sides. This was a heavy trend this year. Furs use to be something the stars would wear. But between out favorite retail stores forever 21, & top shop. You two can rock them at a good price. And we did this year 



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Over The Knee Boots

What's hotter than a fierce woman rocking a fierce over the knee boot? I can't think of anything. Between Kim Kardashian & Rihanna stepping out in fierce boots and online fashion bloggers. This year was definitely topped with the over the knee boot. Normally every year shoe trends change. Just last year the boot wedge was in. I'll look out for this one.


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Off Shoulder Tops

A perfect match with the choker are off shoulder tops. Whether they are one shoulder, cut out shoulder  it was a heavy trend. This was a 70s trend and in 2016 us girls brought it back well.









Tuesday, December 6, 2016

How To Tell Him You Aren't Interested

I'm that girl if I am not interested I won't waste a guys time or mine. I'm blunt straight shooter. So when I turn down guys I may not have done it the right way because they sometimes are offended. You may be like me. Then there's the other type of girls. She doesn't like him what so ever and would rather not tell him. Which this usually leads a guy on. Neither are right. Men have feelings too. Just because you are attractive we should consider his feelings. Here are some ways we can let guys know we aren't interested.


Honesty

The most important thing is being truthful. Let him know you aren't into him the way he's into you. But don't exactly say it like that. Telling him its not him but it's you  is lame, but guess what? The shit works lol. Or if its deeper issues I suggest not going into depth. Unless you two already dated I don't see the need to, but you have to let men know. Any body who leads someone on are super corny in my eyes.
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 Avoid Him

Now let me be clear. Sometimes honesty doesn't always work.. If that's your case you have to get ghost. Don't answer calls or texts, or dms. If it has gotten this far, well girl he must be mighty sprung on you.  I say go out get more active. Get busy so you wont feel bad when you say you are busy. It will mean you truthfully are busy.
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 Don't Be To Friendly

This is one that to many women do. Smiling and grinding in a man's face and you know you have no interest in him. Accepting date offers, gifts and money will cause a man to flip out on you in the end. By accepting those nice gestures you are basically telling him you like him. 
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Play Match Maker

I have done this before. It only will work if you %100  do not want him. I suggest finding somebody who you think may like him. If he had someone who he could kick it with and get to know, maybe he wouldn't sweat you as much. Now if they vibe and get married one day and live happily ever after, don't get jealous.
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 Don't Play The "Like Game"

This is something I had to learn. On Instagram and snap chat we have to be careful. Guys who like 20 post or give us the πŸ˜˜πŸ˜πŸ˜— emoji. It means something. Don't do the same if you aren't interested. Trust me. I have gone as far as to being friendly and before I know it I got πŸ† in my inbox. Thank you is the best response. Not "thank you're cute too"


Sunday, November 27, 2016

Jam Of The Week πŸ”₯ The Weeknd Album Star Boy

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The weeknd dropped his new album Friday. I have had the pleasure to listen to it and it is so dope. Much more energetic and up then the last album. If you like star boy the single you will enjoy the album. Purchase on apple music
https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/starboy/id1156172520

Tuesday, November 22, 2016

Singer Kehlani Drops Video To Single Distraction






Yasss Best friend in my head @kehlani just dropped video to her single #distraction . if you aren't familiar with Kehlani I feel bad for you. Not only is she my fav artist right now she has over 3m Spotify listeners a month. And shes grammy nominated boo. Straight out of Oakland writes & sings her own shit. Check out music video above.

Sunday, November 20, 2016

AMAs Best Dressed 2016


#kaylagotthe411πŸ’₯
#amas Best Dressed 2016
@teyanataylor @haileesteinfeld @ladygaga Are my top 3 bestdresed at this years #americanmusicawards The slayage. Everybody else did a little to much. To casual, or to dressy. They nailed it for real. ♥
looking good girls. 😘

#kaylagotthe411


Kanye Does Another CryBaby Rant This Time About Beyonce.

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Kanye has lost even more marbles. This fool showed up to his concert last night 1 hr late allegedly. Then ranted for about 30 mins and later ended concert.  During the last rant a week ago. He talked about how Jay Z did not come by the house to see if Kim was OK after the robbery and instead they called. Now his latest rant, he claims he heard Beyonce would not perform live at the MTV awards if she didn't get video of the yr. First off a grown ass man going off about something he heard says a lot about his asss.

I really suggest Kik runs for the hills. This time I think the media won't judge her for it. We will completely understand.

Saturday, November 19, 2016

The Curse Of Men (Mariah Carey,Jennifer Lopez, Halie Berry


I hate to be petty. But I know you all love when I be petty. I'm having some concerns, frustrations, so many other words also about these 3 beautiful, talented, successful women. I'm just gone spit it out. THEY CANT KEEP NO MAN. I just don't understand why it always ends bad for them. These are 3 of the most beautiful women in the entertainment business. Yes Beyonce and Rihanna are beautiful too. But this post isn't about them. 

So its all over the blogs, now my blog about the big fight Mariah Carey and ex fiancΓ© James Packer. Remember she was married to Nick Cannon and had two twins before that went south. Anyways, well now her and this billionaire are beefing. She thinks he's trying to ruin the holidays. He thinks she's unstable allegedly. I got to thinking, Mariah, Halie, Jlo stay with man drama. They all are similar in age. This is something that's been going on since they were in the beginning of their career.  I don't know if its them or they choose the wrong men. Let's break down the situations with their latest guys. 
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halle berry olivier martinez



It's been over a year. Halle filled for divorce, But they seem to still be vacationing and spending the holidays together.  Nahla the 8 yr old with ex-boyfriend Gabriel, had issues as well. Let's not forget that big fight back between Gabriel and Oliver. Now we all know her ex husband Eric Benet who came out to support her other ex David Justice in that twitter rant. He accused her and her PR team of lying about domestic violence in their relationship. Let's just say Halle is not cool with none of her exes.
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        Jennifer lopez and casper smart




Now Jennifer Lopez can't seem to hold on to her men neither, but the difference between her and Halle, Jennifer's exes actually like her lol. When she got with back up dancer Casper the world was like #girlstop. But when we saw him by her side and her happy and him playing with her kids by ex Marc Anthony, who recently preferred to them as brother and sister after they shared a kiss online. Anyways 😐. Well Casper and Jennifer are supposedly broken up. It may be their 17th break up since dating. According to people magazine 
She kicked him out because he cheated on her and he got caught,” says the source. “It happened two years ago, and he promised he would never do it again and once he did, she was done.” Jennifer said her self she loves hard. Whatever that means.
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Lastly the Holiday Queen herself. She's dated her manager. Allegedly rapper Eminem some athletics and when she finally had kids, it was with Nick star Nick Cannon. We all were wondering why, and how. But like Jennifer & Casper they grew 
on us as a couple. Only to break up.
Now her and ex fiance James Paker are in a media war. Mariah says he's a opportunist allegedly. 
 A source previously told ET that Carey feels she is owed a $50 million “inconvenience fee” she believes was discussed in prenup negotiations, despite never actually tying the knot





It seems like with Halle its her way or the high way. No compromising in relationships. She's so easy to walk away. With Jennifer she loves and trusts to much. Every guy she dates it seems like she falls hard. With Mariah I can't figure out what her issue is.


Friday, November 18, 2016

Girlfriend or Sidechick ?


Main chick, side chick are both stupid to me. You would think that every woman wants to be the ONLY chick. Guys show you what you are to them by the way they treat you. With his girlfriend he treats her with respect. He cares about her feelings. He doesn't want to hurt her and lies to protect that. With a side chick he is honest and your feelings aren't something he keeps in mind.

He Is Bluntly Honest

If you are dating a guy who opens up to you hes interested in other women. Well sweetie its obvious hes telling you that because he looks at you like a side chick. So he feels why not tell you. You shouldn't care.

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Not Bluntly Honest

You know you are his girlfriend and his only when he goes out of his way to protect your feelings. He may have a lock on his phone so you won't go in his phone and stroll his contact list to see a ex number. Sounds petty right? But its because your feelings towards him matters.
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Friendly Verbal Interactions

If he says to you that you are his homie, his friend. No kisses, no affection. But you two are actually sexual. He sees you as a friend no connection he's just smashing. He probably has a main woman at home.

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Loving Verbal Interactions


When he asks how's your day. He misses you. He's affectionate towards you. He has feelings for you. Men who love their girlfriend are affectionate to their girl.


He's doesn't open up to you

A guy who makes you his side chick are very secretive with you about where they work, egrre they live hell sometimes their names. He doesn't want you coming by his home. Or calling his job. Normally guys who see you as a sure chick won't follow you on social media. He has another somebody. He doesn't want you crossing paths into his real world.

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He told you everything


Girlfriends get to meet the family, friends, co workers even the pets. You probably have a key to his place and has his work number. 


Wednesday, November 16, 2016

Mike Will Made It & Raesrenmurd Hit Billboard #1 With #blackbeatles


Shout out to @raesremmurd and @mikewillmadeit on their first billboard number one with #blackbeatles that has the #mannequinchallenge going viral.



Sunday, November 13, 2016

Coat Season


Its hard to find cute stylish outer wear. It can feel like your jacket is getting in the way of showing off your outfit. Having a statement piece jacket is a must have for the winter. The goal is to look cute and stay warm. Get some inspiration from these stylish coats below.
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L.L Bean

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Scotch & Soda

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                                Tory Burch
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                                  TopShop
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Gucci

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                                Aeropostale
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                                  Elie Tahari
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Lands End

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Intermix

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                                 TopShop

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Top Shop

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Milanoo

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                              Marc Jacobs
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Zulily

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                                      Sears

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NewChic

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