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Bath or Shower? (Which Do You Prefer, & Which Is Better)

So I know its been a week since I have did a post. It was my birthday yesterday so I visited back home. But I'm back and ready to keep it rolling with great post, all us ladies can relate and learn from. So me and my mom had a big discussion about baths and showers. She said to me that baths are better, showers keep you dirty, and your clean if you let your vagina soak in the water. lol I tried explaining to her no, a shower is better, and when taking a bath your sitting in your dirt. Lets face it were not doctors. We never came to a mutual understanding. So I decided to research this on my own and share in a blog post with others once I read on it. Oh and shove it in her face if I was right or not.

From what I read, showers are better for getting cleaner. But baths are better also for getting dirt out of  girly places where the sun don't shine as much. When taking a bath, all the water is sitting in the dirt still, instead of going down the drain as in when taking a shower. Baths can be a hygienic problem depending on how dirty the body is and how long you actually sit the the tub. But none health affects have been found from it. There is a myth that baths give yeast infections but it has not been proven. But it has been proven that taking baths with bubble baths or scented soaps can cause irritation tot he vagina. Doctors suggest that showering first with soap, and than following up with a bath without soap. reference

Whether you use more water by taking a shower, or bath is determined on the size of the tub, the time you take in the shower, and the flow of the water coming out the shower head. 

Studies have not said that a bath is not good for you or a shower, So what is your preference. Think about it and take my poll below.

Would You Be Mader If Your Boyfriend Cheated With Someone Of The Same Sex, Or Another Female?

Cheating-

act dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage, especially in a game or examination.

So I was recently watching Love & Hiphop Hollywood on VH1. There is a couple on this season who are two men and who are in love and in a relationship. Well one of the guys has a long time girlfriend he is also seeing and she doesn't know he is into men and in a relationship with a man. It got me to thinking, wow if I found out my boyfriend was cheating with a man I would be more upset and would end things, but if my boyfriend cheated with a female and I care enough we could work things out only if I trusted him to not do it again.


I look at it like this. If your boyfriend cheated with another man, that means he is into men. That makes it 2 lies. Not being faithful, and not being honest with you to tell you they are into men.
It means you will have to question their sexuality. According to

http://www.sodahead.com Men are more than twice as likely to continue dating a girlfriend who has cheated on them with another woman than one who has cheated with another man, according to new research from a University of Texas at Austin psychologist, Medical News Today reports.
 The researchers also conclude that women fear a man's homosexual affair because it may lead to abandonment. Which is true, you will always have to wonder, if he is into men.

Take Kendra Wilkinson, former girlfriend of Hugh Hefner. Her husband was caught in a scandal last year involving a transgender person. If you are aware of her show on WETV #KendraOnTop she says she has forgave him but she constantly doubts him. 


To me all cheating is bad and wrong, but for me personally I could not stay with someone who cheated with someone of the same sex. It would mean your bi sexual or your just into men.  Thoughts?I want to know your opinions ladies.

Take Poll Here>>>>>>>>>>>>

Jam Of The Week!!! Tinashe-Party Favors ft Young Thug

Okay so it looks like Tinashe is back and ready. Heard she's wrapping up her 2nd album. She recently released her new single Party Favors ft Young Thug. Its slow, but easy to vibe to. Her tone of voice sounds smooth. I really love this track from #Tinashe . Haven't stopped bumping it. Check out the entire song at this link tinashenow/tinashe-party-favors-ft-young-thug . Also check her on the cover of cosmopolitan

Stay tuned for next weeks #Jamoftheweek

Would You Tell Your Friend, Or Sister That Their Boyfriend Was A Loser?

This a very good topic, and touchy one. We all have witness a friend who dated a not so great guy, or maybe you were the one who was dating the not so great guy. If you were dating a guy that was not the right one for you, would you want your close friends to tell you? Or would you have the guts to tell your friend?

I would want my friend now at the age 25 to tell me. If I was in my teens I may not have been as mature enough to except it. If you're friends with someone who knows you, they should know whats best for you. At times when you are in a relationship, and you are in love, we girls tend to get hypnotized by these men. Almost as if they put a love spell on us. Its okay, we all even myself have been there. I have dated so many losers in my days. Sometimes we can snap out of the spell ourselves, but some need a little help. I have always been able to realize a guy was a loser. No guy has done me so dirty where a friend had to intervene.

So back to my question, are you willing to tell a friend, or sister, or even a family member her boyfriend, or husband is a loser and they can do better. I think you should at least tell them once. If they don't listen, then you did your part. That way if it ends bad, it wont fall on you. But ladies be prepared to lose a friendship with that person. People in unhealthy relationships don't think clearly or see clearly. I personally lost a friend of mines from childhood over a bad relationship back in high school. My best friend and I saw it. He was horrible, a bum, no plans in life and a flirt. We both may not have had the best relationships neither, but that relationship was badddd. Now she has a child by him, and he was actually in jail at the time she had it. I always ask myself what if I would of tries harder.

So sometimes its important to speak up, joust be prepared for some backlash. Is it worth it ?

Giada de laurentiis (9,000 in child support to ex husband)

Celebrity chef Giada De Laurentiis is finally single. Her and her ex are now divorced, but the judged may have put a stinger in her clutch. She is ordered to pay 9,000 in child support, and he gets the 3.2 mansion and gets advances on her cookbooks. Woozer. Girl maybe you should of stayed with him, would of been cheaper. I'm kidding. But ladies do you think 9,000 is to much in child support, or do you think  it is right that he will live comfortable off her money even after the divorce. Share thoughts.

Scarf Season!!!!

Hey you all, so fall is almost here. Depending on where you live you may can tell, or may not.Who cares, this post is fun and very useful. I love fall, because I can bring out my boots, hats, but mainly because the scarfs come out. It has been times where I hated my outfit, but once I put on a scarf the outfit came to life. There are lots of ways to wear a scarf and I have my favorite ways. If you struggle with ways to wear your scarf don't sweat it. Remember my blog is to share information to help. I used YouTube to find vloggers who made helpful videos. Here is one here to check out below.25 ways to wear a scarf,  What also helps is sitting in the mirror practicing different  trying ideas to see what works for you.

Pricing for scarfs that I personally buy are between $3.00-20.00. They are such a good investment, because they never go out of style and you can re wear them year after year and build your collection. Practice some of these ways to wear them once you pull out yours or buy new ones.

                                                                       Forever 21

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